lana111 Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 so im coming up on a year with my bf and am composing a card/letter. anywho, when we went out to dinner one night (it was the first night he found out that i was officially his bc i was seeing someone previously, i know not the best situation). well my fortune cookie said "dont confuse temptation with opportunity". i thought that was perfect bc i was in a situation where i had a bf but wanted to be with my current bf so bad. i knew that my feelings for him were inappropriate since i had a bf, but i also thought that he was too good to not go for... that i couldnt not know what "us" would be like. it was like the cookie was telling confirming my thoughts, its not lust its love... soooo i want to write about what the fortune cookie said that night (which i read to him that night for the record) and how it was right BUT do you think i should keep that out bc the saying/story brings up the thought of my ex? i mean im not going to write about my ex in the card of course, but it still is a reminder of that situation. so is it appropriate/good to write that in the card? just looking for your opinions Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I think you should leave the past and not bring up how you cheated on two guys. It may stir up bad thoughts. (sorry I don't mean for that to come off mean or rude!) Link to comment
lana111 Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 well i never cheated physically, but i did emotionally. Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Kind of the same thing, did you kiss him? Oh my bad that doesn't matter sorry!!!! Okay well I think you shouldn't just because its kind of like bringing up not that great of a situation and you should only put good thoughts there.=] Link to comment
lana111 Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 very true thanks. i mean, by bf doesnt have any bad feeling about the situation or anything but i know what you mean about bringing up our less than ideal start. Link to comment
DN Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 If in doubt - don't. I am sure there is something else equally meaningful and personal that you could say. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Do not put that in there. Talk about something else. Like when you realized you were in love with him. Link to comment
lana111 Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 im glad i posted this! i hate to post such silly stuff on here but apparently i was the only one who thought itd be good ahahahahah. thank you all. Link to comment
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