Opinions, please?

[fixyou_]

Hmm, I was reading a post on here just now, and I was thinking...

I've had sex with 9 people (I've made some obvious bad decisions, lol)

I did not enjoy sex AT ALL with 8 out of the 9 people, I was just young and very, very dumb.

I've only enjoyed sex with my most recent x, and I've only orgasmed with him. For the past.. 3 years, I've been unable to actually want to have sex with someone unless I was in love (most recent x), except for 2 cases of revenge sex, which I felt anything but satisfied..

Is it possible that I have to be in love with someone to reach an orgasm, cuz that sounds about right to me.

I don't get off on toys, only my x and my hand.

Speaking of my hand, lol....I write with my right, and masturbate with my left.

Odd?

[ghost69]

yes that is odd.

 

but once you learn to O by yourself, you can O with anybody. if it's a mental block for yourself and you need someone you really care for, well, that's what you need then.

[Jetta]

Well... maybe you're maturing. And it's probably unusual that you masterbate with a different hand. I don't know what's common but I use the same hand for writing and um, the other thing.

[fixyou_]

yes that is odd.

 

but once you learn to O by yourself, you can O with anybody. if it's a mental block for yourself and you need someone you really care for, well, that's what you need then.

 

I O by myself quite frequently lol. But yeah, I think it's a mental block.

[fixyou_]

Well... maybe you're maturing. And it's probably unusual that you masterbate with a different hand. I don't know what's common but I use the same hand for writing and um, the other thing.

 

Hmm, well, it very well could be that I'm maturing. That's a good thing

[barbielovesmac]

Are you sure you aren't me?

 

LOL.

[Nixee]

The self-love with the non-dominant hand thing is unusual... but the only climaxing with someone you love.... not strange at all

 

I don't know that I have to be completely in love with my partner, but I have to have a certain connection or at least a good chemistry/compatibility going on for it to happen... and there's certainly been times when that has NOT happened.. ugh

 

Then there are mediocre times...

 

And of course then there are the rare think-I-might-lose-consciousness times

[fixyou_]

Are you sure you aren't me?

 

LOL.

 

Haha, good to know I'm not alone.

[fixyou_]

The self-love with the non-dominant hand thing is unusual... but the only climaxing with someone you love.... not strange at all

 

I don't know that I have to be completely in love with my partner, but I have to have a certain connection or at least a good chemistry/compatibility going on for it to happen... and there's certainly been times when that has NOT happened.. ugh

 

Then there are mediocre times...

 

And of course then there are the rare think-I-might-lose-consciousness times

 

Ahh, I'm glad all of those times are long gone.8-[

[Nixee]

Ahh, I'm glad all of those times are long gone.8-[

 

Oh but the lose consciousness times are GOOOOOD times

[redhearts]

I heard those hitachi magic wands can make any girl who hasn't orgasmed orgasm. Hmmz.=] lol I think most people make the mistake or don't realise things when they are young by having sex with a few guys..

[dragonzeyez]

[fixyou_]

 

I have since as far back as I can remember.

[fixyou_]

I heard those hitachi magic wands can make any girl who hasn't orgasmed orgasm. Hmmz.=] lol I think most people make the mistake or don't realise things when they are young by having sex with a few guys..

 

Nah, I hate toys. They feel so unnatural and cold, and just lol