Hopeful99 Posted August 27, 2008 Share Posted August 27, 2008 Just wanted to say that when it is all said and done - please do not do what I did in terms of handling the breakup with my ex gf. If you have time , read my posts from this past 9 months as a road map on how to screw up. While I believe she has major issues and is not good at relationships, I did not help things any by remaining in contact - finally sending her daughter a card was the final straw and she said to never contact her or her family again. Not only no hope of reconciliation but no hope of ever talking again in a civilized manner. I know Icould nothave changed the breakup and most likely there was nothing I could have done or said to make her come back on a permanent basis. But....at least I would not sit here and be totally ashamed of making a fool of myself.......and having to see her and her friends at the office just drives the stake deeper into my hear every day with what a foll she thinks I am. I realize all situations are different....just think before acting.....unlike me. Link to comment
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