Talk about chickens and with no guts whatsoever!

[Smyles]

I saw an incredibly good looking guy at the mall today. Clearly there was attraction between us as we both kept exchanging glances and smiles. But neither of us would approach the other!

 

Now I\'m grieving the \'what if\' and \'could have been\'. Arghhhhh!

[grymoire]

I saw an incredibly good looking guy at the mall today. Clearly there was attraction between us as we both kept exchanging glances and smiles. But neither of us would approach the other!

 

Now I\'m grieving the \'what if\' and \'could have been\'. Arghhhhh!

 

why didn't you make a move? you could have at least said a "hello"

[lostandhurt]

It can be a very hard to put yourself out there like that. It is now in the past and you can't do anything about it now. Think about what you might do next time. If you are with friends, tell them next time to push you to take that leap and walk up and say hi, I saw you looking at me, my name is _______. You never know. ( I know, easier said than done)

 

lost

[Smyles]

why didn\'t you make a move? you could have at least said a \"hello\"

 

OMG! He looks like Vin Diesel! *Dies*

 

I tried to say hi when I walked past him later outside the mall when he was sitting all by himself on a bench but my mouth was invisibly duct-taped. I couldn\'t even look him in the eyes.

 

I know, STUPID!

[Smyles]

It can be a very hard to put yourself out there like that. It is now in the past and you can\'t do anything about it now. Think about what you might do next time. If you are with friends, tell them next time to push you to take that leap and walk up and say hi, I saw you looking at me, my name is _______. You never know. ( I know, easier said than done)

 

lost

 

I think I\'m more afraid of him laughing in my face. What if what I thought (the glancing and smiling) was meant for someone else, someone beautiful behind me (not that I saw anyone from behind)?

 

But I guess a no is better than having these rueful and pesky thoughts.

[grymoire]

I think I\'m more afraid of him laughing in my face. What if what I thought (the glancing and smiling) was meant for someone else, someone beautiful behind me (not that I saw anyone from behind)?

 

But I guess a no is better than having these rueful and pesky thoughts.

 

yup... totally understand... i too go through the same emotions... i can never tell if a girl would be interested ](*,)

[ghost69]

next time make a move. introduce yourself so you don't have to have this feeling again.

[Johnathan]

I feel your pain, I've been there and it SUCKS knowing you couldve gotten something awesome but couldnt free your mind.

OMG! He looks like Vin Diesel! *Dies*

 

 

you shoulda asked for his autograph and then explained why.

[hockeyplaya44]

I've had this feeling before, it sucks. Just remember, if he had absolutely no attraction to you whatsoever, he would at least feel flattered and would still be nice to you. If he was attracted to you like you said, he would be on top of the world if you approached him.

 

If you're worried about what people think, try to think how you would react to someone who acted the way you were too afaid to.

[AJ Auteur]

You already invited him to approach. He either wasn't interested (he may have just liked the attention.) or didn't have it in him.

 

Be warned...this is most guys.