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Catching a liar red handed.

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So after ditching the guy who found it amusing to check out other chicks while holding me...

 

I found out he was sleeping with two different chicks on his visit to home this past week.

 

The reason I find this funny is because the ENTIRE time he was gone he was calling and texting me "oh, im so sorry" "oh i miss you" i can't stop thinking of you" after all this bull, i find out he's sleeping around. Sure, it's none of my concern as him and I aren't together but I cannot help to have a little laugh.

 

I just find it funny how men, people in general actually, will TRY to cover up their lies, even when they know they've been caught and when the lie is clearly out there in the open for EVERYONE to see. If you are going to lie at least do a good job at it.

 

It just comes to show ya, your lies and betrayal shall catch up to you sooner or later!

 

There is nothing more I hate then a liar EXCEPT a bad one!

 

I thank my EX for all the crap he put me through, as I can now read men better. No longer will I let a man walk all over me.

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I just find it funny how men, people in general actually, will TRY to cover up their lies, even when they know they've been caught and when the lie is clearly out there in the open for EVERYONE to see.

 

I think perhaps this is the most ironic thing I've read all year.

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Men who check out other women while on a date with you -- huge red flag! It gives you a glimpse of what's going to happen later. I know cuz I learned the hard way, unfortunately.

 

But, sorry that happened to you barbie. At least you can find some humor in it!

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Gosh Barbie, you seem to have the WORST luck with men!

Sympathies!

 

Hey man, your telling me, LOL

 

Yeah, and when you confront him about lying, he still looks you straight in the eyes and lies. I just wish that at that instant, with one bat of my eyes, he would fall off this earth.

 

Oh yeah, he was a smooth one. Looked me DEAD in the eye. I even caught him A LIE...I didn't even tell him I knew...Just like an above poster and a very good friend of mine (MG) said, they just hang themselves.

 

It's whatever.

 

I find humor in the stupidity of it all.

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my question is why you are always so concerned with the past guys?

 

how you found this out too is beyond me. somebody starts talking about this guy or that guy in your past you should be like 'i don't even want to know or hear it.'

 

ok? we were still talking. he went home for a week. it doesn't matter how i found out. but i did, that's not the point. it's not like i went out searching. how i found out was really outta my control. thanksssss.

 

barbie where are you finding these guys? where is it that you meet them? how do they all end up being the same?

 

I met this guy on the street, lol. Well, if you want to be technical about it, the sidewalk. Haha. Me and my girl were leaving a club and there he was.

 

I wish I knew the answer to that one. I don't know how they ALL end up the same. It's my luck. I guess *Barbie is doomed for life as far as men are concerned. Lol.

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please don't be snippy barbie, i was just asking.

 

 

and meeting a guy on the sidewalk outside of a common place people are gathering isn't a bad thing. i've met a lot of girls out front of a club or bar. especially when it's closing.

 

i didn't mean to come off as snippy

 

i didn't say it was a bad thing, how i met him. and yeah, it was at closing of one club when we ran into eachother.

 

it just amazes me how i manage to find these men. i don't get why guys act like they are all into you and stuff and then pull crap like this

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i didn't mean to come off as snippy

 

i didn't say it was a bad thing, how i met him. and yeah, it was at closing of one club when we ran into eachother.

 

it just amazes me how i manage to find these men. i don't get why guys act like they are all into you and stuff and then pull crap like this

 

yeah, it sucks barbie. i know a lot of associates (not quite friends) from when i used to club/bar hop. i know a lot of the guys are after one thing and are flaky, etc. you just have to weed through he crap. looks like this guy was part of the toilet crew as i call them.

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yeah, it sucks barbie. i know a lot of associates (not quite friends) from when i used to club/bar hop. i know a lot of the guys are after one thing and are flaky, etc. you just have to weed through he crap. looks like this guy was part of the toilet crew as i call them.

 

see, the thing that threw me with this guy is he was REALLY, REALLY eager to see me the night after we met. so, the night after we met we went out on a date and it was amazing. he was really great, we had a nice dinner with awesome conversation. we spent alot of time together after that. so he didn't really act like he was after that ONE thing ya know? even after he got that one thing, yes, i slept with him, he STILL came around like he did before we slept together. sooo it's just beyond me how men are.

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why lie? why not save yourself the trouble? if you don't like someone or care enough to be with JUST them, then WHY lie and say those things? ya know? call me crazy, but you can just not say those things and TOTALLY avoid all the drama.

 

he made very clear points to tell me those things while he was out with all these women. its like he wanted his cake and to eat it too. not happening.

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well, maybe his feelings changed. whether it was the sex or something else that changed his mind, he did. haven't you ever changed your mind about someone new? obviously you did here. right? well, after he seemed to have. but you have choices too barbie.

 

i know, and im not even hung up on him. we weren't involved enough for me to upset about. he showed me his true colors 2 weeks after we met ...... so it's like whatever, no loss.

 

i am just amused?

 

to know someone is lying is one thing. to be talking to them and to CATCH them in a lie is another. that's where i draw the line now.

 

he tried to lie to me when i already knew. i didn't tell him what i knew because to me, it was my justification and it felt pretty darn good! lol

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i know, and im not even hung up on him. we weren't involved enough for me to upset about. he showed me his true colors 2 weeks after we met ...... so it's like whatever, no loss.

 

i am just amused?

 

to know someone is lying is one thing. to be talking to them and to CATCH them in a lie is another. that's where i draw the line now.

 

he tried to lie to me when i already knew. i didn't tell him what i knew because to me, it was my justification and it felt pretty darn good! lol

 

that's awesome you didn't shove the lie in his face. it would show that you cared enough to try and call him on it.

 

more power to ya barbie.

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