how do I tell her!

[hislove16]

I have found out I have a crush on my best friend. I don't know how to tell her. She doesn't even know that I'm bi. I've tried hinting at it with lots of little things like grabbing her hand, kissing her cheek, but she doesn't get it. How am I supposed to tell her without her freaking out and not talking to me? I don't want to lose her friendship...

[True]

Okay.... *Iv* kinda been in both situations.

A friend of mine is bi

 

I also am in love with my best friend - who is a guy. It really suks when you cant do anyhing about it though (like with me). Would you be willing to *not* tell her and jus forget about it?

[redhearts]

Just tell her your bi and see how she reacts. Don't tell her right off the bat that you like her.

[greywolf]

I thought I had a crush on my best friend once, but it just turned out to be jealousy because she was in a relationship. Do you think it might be something like that?

[Pocket Rocket]

I agree with redhearts, broaching the subject of sexuality could ease her into the idea that you are bi. Once you have told her, you never know, she may be interested too and might then have the go-ahead to make a move. If she doesn't though, you can either try yourself or just have to be content with the fact that she only thinks of you as a friend. Good luck!