calidreamin0 Posted August 26, 2008 Share Posted August 26, 2008 ok so i was dating this guy for a few months. and things seemed really well. he seemed REALLY interested in me. he called me probably at least once a day and texted me constantly. i was almost stand offish at how interested he seemed to be. i told him im not into booty calls/ casual sex. im just past that stage, and am not interested. if THATS what he is interested in. he assured me 'no', you are a woman i have always wanted to be with. well we had sex and then he kinda called a little less. this is where i got suspicious. well a few days later we had sex again. and then the day after i did this favor for one of his young family members. WELL he says 'thanks so much, i will call you before i go to work tonight and do you wanna go to dinner on sunday'. i said sure. well...HE NEVER CALLED. around wed i send him a casual text message. and responds as if nothing is to be concerned about! i am so irritated. i dont understand this man. he was like WAY into me. talking to me about his life, fears, blah blah. and then to all of a sudden STOP? why go through all that work and for nothing. i just feel so used. its not really the sex part, but more of me going out of my way for him...and him NOT EVEN CALLING!!!!!!!!!!!!! and this man is...35... i thought older men would somewhat be more mature? i have assumed he has either, found someone else, wanted just booty, OR is just selfish and wants a woman who will be in a 100/0 relationship. which...is not me. this guy is attractive, very attractive... i almost think he doesn't like the fact that im not worshiping the ground he walks on. i dont know. i just dont know why he didnt even call after i did a favor for HIS family member, he could have at least given a reason whether it be BS or not, but SOMETHING as to why he is a flake. that part just really bothered me, and its been a week, and still does! lesson learned...med are shaddy and flakey no matter what age! :sad: Link to comment
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