CrashTestDummy Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Yeah so I got this problem where I have a friend who wants to do practically everything with me... My friend Jason isn't exactly my best friend but is a good friend nonetheless and is a bit awkward to hang out with in large groups since a lot of people find him odd and weird. My BEST friend, Rick actually doesn't really like him since he makes inappropriate comments and uncalled for insults that sound like its not a joke. He ridiculed Rick's good friend the other day(who is also a good friend of mine), James for "being too nice and too silent". My friend James is shy but he's a great guy and one of the nicest people I know. I understand why people don't like Jason, he's a bit awkward and a bit of an oddball and usually rudely invites himself to things he shouldn't be sticking his nose in. He makes inappropriate jokes at inappropriate times and is sometimes just very rude to people. I consider him a good friend because we've been through some tough times, and he's always willing to do something. Hanging out with him is a bit of an issue since I don't understand the point of some of his stories. He doesn't like playing video games because I always beat him and he always rudely interrupts me when I'm trying to say something. Anyways, Jason wanted to hang out with me the other day although I had already made plans with Rick. Now here's the catch, Jason doesn't know that Rick strongly dislikes him, and I know if I say I'm hanging out with Rick he'd want to tag along. Rick would be really pissed off if Jason came. I don't know what to do at this point since I already lied to Jason about going to an amusement park with my Dad, and he wanted to tag along and he seems almost determined to come (he was rudely inviting himself to this). I know I really shouldn't've lied, but I thought the excuse would fight him off but it surely didn't. It's just that if I told him Rick didn't like him he'd be more determined to hang out with me, and I really just wanna hang with Rick since he's always looking for fun and stuff. I know this is a mouthful but anyone have any advice? Link to comment
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