could you guys please give me some advice?

[RoadRage]

I met this girl in one of my uni 'small group lessons', (small groups formed from lectures), about 2 weeks ago. Nice pretty, and very talkative - which i like to see in a girl.

 

Well, one of my friends, (who has a gf already), is also in my class- and so that makes it kind of hard to get one on one time with her... anyway, we (the three of us) have had many long chats afterwards (once a week), for even a couple of hours.....(and somewhere the topic of bf/gf slipped into the conversation, and i found out she doesnt in fact have one....

 

Anyway, he has classes after these chats, so often its just me and her who get to walk back to the station, and so we have a bit of a talk then too...

 

well, i've got her email and phone, she asked for mine in fact first, -perhaps a friendly gesture, i'm not sure.....

 

anyway since then i have seen her a couple of times (one on one) but mostly for a walk to the station and a chat, nothing too much more then that....

 

Anyway in our chats, well she gives me good eye-contact, hugs me a lot too.... but this may just be what an outgoing girl like herself does....

 

also i've asked her if she wants to meet up for lunch at the campus quite a few times, like 3 times, but she always seems to be busy - either has classes or must go home, and - she says builders are working on her house....she seems to be telling the truth, and whenever she's said she can't make it, i havent seen her around at all so perhaps she is.....idn....

 

is this just bad luck? should i keep on trying? should i ask her out to something outside uni time, even tho ive only known her 2 weeks or so? what do you guys think, any advice would be greatly appreciated

 

thanks

[Xetra Dax]

Ask her to go out with you in the weekends, she should have some time then. I would react quickly.

[CB4RH]

Sounds like shes pretty keen on you, i agree to askin her out on the weekends or possibly asking her to see the house and its recent modifications. That could be a good excuse to see how she lives and she will be more comfortable and open with you in her own home.