DaXMan Posted August 24, 2008 Share Posted August 24, 2008 I return to college in a week, excited to begin the upcoming year. Making things even more exciting is that it appears a girl I've only met a few times told me she wants to hang out with me - ASAP. Seems normal enough, right? Not quite. You see, I've only met this girl a couple of times, and none of these meetings lasted long at all. A few buddies of mine were at a party and she made her way over to us to make a wisecrack at the frat's "entertainment" for the night (some contest). If I remember correctly, we didn't talk to her or her friends for really long, and I was the only one of my friends to actually introduce themself. I figured she had a bf since she is stunningly attractive. After we became "Facebook friends" (that's the new trend I discovered she was single. I ran into her the next day and we wound up talking for a few more minutes. After this encounter and a couple subsequent facebook posts (that she began), I figured that was it. She seemed cool, but I didn't really know her and maybe we'd run into each other next year... ...well, fate has a funny way of creating opportunities. Sometime in early July, I get a message from her - she says she forgot my number and asks if she can have it back. Considering I only met her a few times and we never had exchanged numbers, I figured it was sent to multiple people. Regardless, I gave her my number and asked how her summer was going. To make things short, this turned into over a month of us keeping in touch and now she is "really excited" to see me again when I get back to school and that we'd hang out. Now I thought this was just her being nice...apparently she may have been serious. This weekend, she is making her first trip to a major city that I live just under an hour away from. Knowing I live rather close to the city, she texted me saying she was on her way and that she really hoped I could visit the city too so I'd see her (she was with a guy friend - trust me they're not anything more). I can't really make it to the city for a substantial amount of time this weekend, and I told her that (a few friends are leaving back for college, and then I have some other things I need to do). She sounded a little bummed, but she knows I'll see her in a week anyway, so she was excited about that. She also wants to visit the city again with me this coming semester (possibly more than once) - in fact, she's said this several times. So, where's the catch I'm missing (does she only see me as a friend, is she still just being really nice)? I haven't actually seen this girl in 4 months, we've only even met a couple of times, yet she seems crazy about me. Sure, we've kept in touch for a good part of the summer and I've used some C+F (cocky & funny), but could this really be all it takes? I mean, in recent history I've had a little trouble getting a date. All of a sudden, a girl who is both really cool and is one of the most attractive girls I've ever spoken with, is "super excited" to see me, she's contacting me whenever she's near, and she already envisions us making a few trips to the big city during the school year)? Seems almost too good to be true... Link to comment
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