Gratsy Posted August 23, 2008 Share Posted August 23, 2008 I had a friend point out to me that I have always had men who treated me badly in relationships. It makes me sad to think this, but I can't do anything about my past. I've been in a lot of abusive relationships. I broke off all of them...but... it makes me wonder if there is something about me that attracts these kind of men...and not the kind I want? I have never felt seriously about settling down with a man, although I've had plenty feel (or claim to)that way about me. Its as if they were oblivious to my real feelings about ever getting serious with them. The last two guys I dated were the only nice, normal guys in my life but the relationships were superficial and they didn't end perfectly although they ended nicer than most of my relationships before them. is there something about me that says, 'be disrespectful to her'? Or is it that there are just a lot of bad men in this world, and you have to weed through them? THe last guy I fell for wanted to use me in a fwb situation...he got to know my heart, my past, my wants and thats all he wanted from me...I wasn't aware of it until I separated myself from him for three months. is it me? Link to comment
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