reneex061 Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 Just wondering, because I want to prepare myself to what might come from leaving him alone. It's hard for me to believe that an abuser would leave a relationship forever because I thought that they usually get really worked up and then once they've cooled down they come back around like it didn't happen. I read somewhere that thats how the cycle is. He pulled out of the relationship because he said of me, but I didn't do anywhere near what he did. Do you think he'll realize where he went wrong and see what he's done with time? For me, I think that everyone eventually realizes their wrong after some time. He used to tell me that the last time he wanted to do was become his dad and like before before he got really bad he would tell me that he already is his dad. At the time I didn't think that at all because I could never see him being how his dad was with him a long time ago, but now I see what he meant. I think he was so afraid of that happening that he didn't even see that he really was turning into him. Like he would get REALLY upset thinking about being how his dad was, so how did he allow himself to turn into him? I think with time he will see that he turn out just like how his dad was. Will he see that? Link to comment
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