xItalianxPrincessx Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 im 21 and my bf is 24. weve been together for over 4yrs. his mom has been a financial leach for most of the time. they come from absolutely no money and she doesnt even work. shes remarried with 2 young boys and her husband is an immigrant and now US citizen from morrocco. he works but is only a limo driver since his degrees didnt transfer easily and then never tried to get it fixed. so now my problem: she always asks for 'help' and he would usually help. she ran him broke many times but he felt it was worth it since he was helping his bros and keeping their tv and lights on. well, they jointly bought a house but his mom moved out cuz they couldnt afford it. now jeff lives there with his best friend and they were (until recently) giving his mom the rent/mortgage money. come to find out she was ripping them off $200 a month!!! she ALSO just straight out didnt pay 2 payments cuz now hes delinquent 2 months pay and he had to get in touch with the company and let them no hes handling it now and things will be straight from here on out. his mom and her new fam planned (and failed) to move to belgium where the stepdad has a brother with a real estate business and they were supposed to go into a partnership. well his mom left and came back with the boys 2 weeks later cuz they didnt like it there. the stepdad stayed to try to make some money. now his mom and bros have been living in her sisters 1 bedroom apt and they are waiting to get into an apt. she also had asked jeff for help in getting the apt. she wanted him to cosign for her, but he said they got approved on their own- thankfully!!! also when they were initially moving, she left a $1000 balance on the cell phone bill, and just today the phone is finally shut off. ive talked to my bf about all of this cuz i freaked the hell out when i found out about the phone and then the house- im irate and am ready to cut htis womans throat out. shes a horrible, miserable, theif of a person, and a dispicable mother. i cant believe she stole from her own son and his roommate. but ive talked to jeff about this and he says hes not helping them again and he has barely talked to her. i dont really have a question but i needed to vent and i would like to hear ur opinions on this. Link to comment
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