jasputan123 Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 My gf and I both recently started college at the same school. We have been going out for a yr and a half and I have been overall very happy in the past. But now that I am getting to school and seeing all of these other girls I am not sure that I want to be tied down. Part of me still loves my gf very much, but another part of me isnt ready to settle down. I dont know what to do I will feel horrible breaking up with her...she has told me that the only reason she came to this school is because I am going here, and if I break up with her the first week I would feel absolutely horrible about myself. I have mentioned to her that I am confused about whether I want to be in the relationship anymore and this crushed her. It hurts me so much to see her sad and crying like that...to the point where I started crying too and sort of lied to her and told her that I changed my mind and want to stay with her....what should I do..I know things cant keep going on like this...Part of me loves her but another part is dying to not be tied down in college. What should I do!? Link to comment
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