Red49 Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 The post at the bottom of this page about Borderline women made a lot of sense to me, I could relate to it a lot. I would often wonder if my ex had BPD, but I'm not a doctor, I don't know for sure. After reading the link that was posted, as well as the other articles on that site about BPD, I feel very confused. It brought up a lot of questions. It has me questioning the authenticity of our relationship. If she had/has BPD, does that mean that everything she said while we were together wasn't true? The impression I got from that article made it sound like it doesn't matter what guy a woman with BPD is with...it made it sound like they treat anyone they're with the same exact way. She did make me feel special when we were together, saying her boyfriend before me was never anyone important to her. And she said she was scared in the past, and that was why we weren't together (I had known her for a while, we broke up, and then got back together after 6 years). I'm not so sure what to believe now. Even though the relationship has ended, it hurts to read that article and think that it might have been all meaningless to her, or nothing as special as she made it seem. I hate to think that it was all just a bunch of lies, over the course of 10 years knowing this girl. Maybe it doesn't matter now, at this point. But to read that article just kind of messed me up a little. Link to comment
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