sushi_pompom Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 So last night it was said; we both exchanged "I love yous" which is beyond wonderful and fantastic! I'm so happy (he said I was glowing last night), but the problem is, now I am concerned with how much I should say it. I don't want to go over board and seem clingy but I don't want to say it too little making him think I am really not in love with him. Plus there is a side of me that feels he should verbalize the L-word first, leaving me to be the one who responds. Perhaps I would prefer it this way because then I know 100% he does indeed love me? *shrugs* For example, last night he left really late and I told him to call me once he got home just so I knew he made it safe, when he did he said "love you" and I responded "I love you too". Now about an hour ago he calls to see how my day went and the L-word wasn't uttered at all on either sides, I wanted to say it but I bit my tongue because as I stated I don't want to seem needy or insecure. But I do indeed feel so much love for him and I want to express it verbally...what's a girl to do? So do you think it's too much to say it at the end of a conversation, maybe thrown into a couple texts through out the day? Plus I don't want to utter it too much because then it won't seem so special... I'm being silly aren't I? If I feel it should I say it? I don't know...what do you guys think? Link to comment
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