george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Been on a few dates with this one girl. We only see each other once a week and it is always on a weekday, which I like frees up my weekends. I just feel like I am getting used. I think she just likes someone good looking that's a good F to come pay her company once a week. Now don't get me wrong the sex is amazing and I do enjoy her company but when I will call to try and set something up for a few days later she flakes. She is doing what I used to do in college which sucks because she has a lot of what I am looking for. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 how do you feel used? cause you don't see her much? Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 That and our dates are sort of fake. We will go out to dinner, bowling, drinks and it's always cut short and she rushs me back to her place. Norm I wouldn't care but she is so my type personality wise and def has the looks. Link to comment
Supa_gurl Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 how do you feel used? cause you don't see her much? Nah I think he feels used because he gives her what she wants, then when he tries to make acutal plans she flakes out on him. Don't give her the sex next time, say you just want to watch a movie together or something and see what she says. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 Nah I think he feels used because he gives her what she wants, then when he tries to make acutal plans she flakes out on him. Don't give her the sex next time, say you just want to watch a movie together or something and see what she says. I am a guy it's hard to pass up if it's thrown in your face. Maybe I'll try this tomorrow night. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Why don't you just ask her what her intentions are? Maybe she is just a very busy girl. Link to comment
grymoire Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Nah I think he feels used because he gives her what she wants, then when he tries to make acutal plans she flakes out on him. Don't give her the sex next time, say you just want to watch a movie together or something and see what she says. This is unbelievable man Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 Why don't you just ask her what her intentions are? Maybe she is just a very busy girl. She doesn't have many friends, just moved here a few months ago, and she is done work at 4 everyday. Link to comment
grymoire Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 She doesn't have many friends, just moved here a few months ago, and she is done work at 4 everyday. george... are you serious? i can't see how she is using you.... may be you are paying for the dates every time? Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 This is unbelievable man Why? I don't mind this kind of thing if I am not really into her but I like this girl. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 george... are you serious? i can't see how she is using you.... may be you are paying for the dates every time? No she paid about half so far. Link to comment
grymoire Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 No she paid about half so far. ok.. so she takes turns in paying... she provides physical intimacy... now why do you say she is using you? because she runs home quickly?? "using" is a bit strong word here... i don't think she is using you... Link to comment
D_Lish Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Sounds like a 'nymphomaniac' to me....what are you complaining about, other guys would give their right arm to be in your situation....lol Link to comment
grymoire Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Sounds like a 'nymphomaniac' to me....what are you complaining about, other guys would give their right arm to be in your situation....lol seriously... that's why i am wondering why he feels he is being used.... dude go and read my story here and you will know what 'using' means.. especially using in the name of friendship. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 Sounds like a 'nymphomaniac' to me....what are you complaining about, other guys would give their right arm to be in your situation....lol I don't know I like her, we have been out on around 7 dates, and personality is a good match for me. So I want to start something with her or at least try to. Link to comment
sweetooth Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 So...stop worrying and have fun! Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 George - why don't you just talk to her? It's been 7 dates... Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 Well it seems like fwb's I had before but I never went out on dates with them. So that's what I am thinking she wants. If she does I'll keep at it but I don't want to waste time on dates. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 George - why don't you just talk to her? It's been 7 dates... I never start the talk. Link to comment
Carmine Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Wahhh, this hot girl just wants to have sex with me. I'm not that type of guy you know. Women...always thinking with their ovaries... Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 Wahhh, this hot girl just wants to have sex with me. I'm not that type of guy you know. Women...always thinking with their ovaries... It's not that man if I want to find someone to sleep with it isn't the hardest thing in the world. If I want to find someone that I find interesting that's a challenge. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 Wahhh, this hot girl just wants to have sex with me. I'm not that type of guy you know. Women...always thinking with their ovaries... Besides I have #2 for that. She's a knockout but acts like a 16yo. I like this girl so I want more. Link to comment
yumicecream Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 What goes around comes around. In your past you said you did this to other girls. Now its happening to you. She is kind just enjoying you, nothing serious. Or, you just suspect she is b/c you've done it in your past. All of a sudden you realize maybe it isn't all about sex. Well, its too late for that realization. Its just karma. Link to comment
Balbina Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 She's a knockout but acts like a 16yo. Because of how she's treating you or in general?? If the latter then I wouldn't be surprised. Anyway, gather those balls of yours and ask the damn girl. Even if you get rejected, you'll probably still get laid. Link to comment
grymoire Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 What goes around comes around. In your past you said you did this to other girls. Now its happening to you. She is kind just enjoying you, nothing serious. Or, you just suspect she is b/c you've done it in your past. All of a sudden you realize maybe it isn't all about sex. Well, its too late for that realization. Its just karma. that's harsh... why do you have to make him feel guilty... did he rape those girls or take advantage of them? i think it was all consensual sex... and btw karma doesn't exist... its just a tool that is used by religions to get people to do good things... if they do some thing wrong then karma will come back and bite you... yea right Link to comment
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