embilee Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Hey Guys, I'm a girl in my mid-twenties. I am wondering in cases of a "perfect" first date (from my perspective) how to know if a guy is just a nice guy or if he actually liked you. Date did not end in kiss. Also, if you go on a date (with a guy you met online, so you don't see each other in real life except for this perfect date), is there anything a female can do to get a male to change his mind about whether or not the girl has girlfriend potential? Link to comment
alakazam Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 That depends on what he's interested in... If he's interested in a trophy wife/gf, then you can show him your boobs and put them in his face... but I don't think this is what you want... If he's interested in a companion, don't go into a first date expecting anything. Instead, go into it looking for someone to hang out with... a lot... and a lot close than most people hang out... Also, don't just "date" - hang out! With him or with a group of his or your friends... that part is up to you Link to comment
wtm78 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Hey Guys, I'm a girl in my mid-twenties. I am wondering in cases of a "perfect" first date (from my perspective) how to know if a guy is just a nice guy or if he actually liked you. Date did not end in kiss. Also, if you go on a date (with a guy you met online, so you don't see each other in real life except for this perfect date), is there anything a female can do to get a male to change his mind about whether or not the girl has girlfriend potential? it will be perfect if both of you be yourself.. be natuaral.. so both of you can see what is real.. and make the right decision.. normally 1 date is not enough.. unless you already know him for a long time.. i recon, take about 6 months to date that guy then judge by then if you two want to give it a shot... Link to comment
embilee Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 Well, what I meant was... I had a date with a guy, and I thought it went perfectly. I had a lot of fun... it seemed like he did as well. However, no mention of a second date. Any hope for this? Link to comment
wtm78 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 hmm... maybe.. maybe not.. wait for him to make the first move.. u can make the first move.. but then it would be much of a chase.. and most guys like a chase.. Well, what I meant was... I had a date with a guy, and I thought it went perfectly. I had a lot of fun... it seemed like he did as well. However, no mention of a second date. Any hope for this? Link to comment
embilee Posted August 20, 2008 Author Share Posted August 20, 2008 hmm... maybe.. maybe not.. wait for him to make the first move.. u can make the first move.. but then it would be much of a chase.. and most guys like a chase.. Nothing I can do to facilitate increasing his interest in me except wait? Link to comment
wtm78 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 waiting is actually increasing his interest in you... hope defers make the heart sick... or rather absense makes one's heart grow fonder.. of course if you want you can call him and make a 2nd date.. dating is a game, its how you want to play your stakes.. its all up to you Nothing I can do to facilitate increasing his interest in me except wait? Link to comment
pacodemil Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 The best advice I can give for a great first date is to be yourself as much as possible and show him what it's like to spend time with you. That way he knows what he has to look forward to with you in the future. Link to comment
Godwin Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 I had a perfect first date on Friday, we ended up in bed together, just cuddling and kissing but it was fun and helped us to get to know each other. Now, I am not suggesting you bed this dude, but some physical attention would be nice. Maybe try and hold his hand or something??? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Nothing I can do to facilitate increasing his interest in me except wait? pretty much nothing to do. he either likes you or he doesn't. Link to comment
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