gardengnome Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 I'm only attracted to gay guys that are somewhat in shape,attractive, and 'straight' acting, but I'm not in shape myself. (although they will force me to be with where I'm going for a couple months) but, I'm not even sure if I'm entirely gay anymore. I think a lot of girls are pretty and I'd like to cuddle and maybe a little more with very attractive ones. The only problem with that is I've come out of the closet to a dozen or so people and I wonder what they would think if I ended up with a girlfriend sometime in the future (I've never been on a date, in a relationship, kissed, or had sex with anybody before). I'm pretty sure I'm somewhere on the 60/40 spectrum of bisexuality, meaning, I'd prefer to be with a guy, but I could be with a girl, and that's only if they are on the same 'level' in my opinion. In a LOT of cases, I would much rather be with a girl than a lot of guys. It seems like I would prefer to find Mr. Right, but would be ridiculously hard for me to find and extremely rare, while Miss Right is less desirable, but more available. I guess I have a little bit of time to think about it, and I'll be going away to college in a few months like I've always wanted to, so I'm hoping to figure it all out there, but I was just wondering on suggestions and what everyone thinks is the right thing to do. Link to comment
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