SeaBisquit Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 hi, I have really been thinking about cheating on my boyfriend. I love him but I don't see enough of him. For the past couple months I have only seen him about once or twice a month. I haven't seen him in about three weeks and i really want to be with someone. I'm going to a bachorlarette party tonight and i'm hoping to meet a guy their. Link to comment
BetterKarma Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Before you cheat, perhaps you should talk to your boyfriend about this? And rather than cheating, if he is not fulfilling your needs, it might be time to break up so that you both can find someone that will be there. Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Wow, that is really sweet of you. Perhaps you should just do him a favor and break up with him first, then you can go get laid with a clear conscience. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 break up with your bf if you're having this much of a problem with it. Just, whatever you do, don't cheat. Btw, don't blame it on an LDR. I didn't see my bf for 3 and a half months and I didn't cheat. Even when this new guy I really really liked leaned in to kiss me, I still had self control and told him no. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 The correct thing to do is break up with your boyfriend if you are not happy with him and ONLY AFTER you have broken up with him find someone else. Is your boyfriend long distance? Why hasn't he been able to see you? Cheating won't solve your problems, it will just make them worse. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 would it be cool with you if your boyfriend went to a bachelor party and cheated just because he wanted to? just wanna make sure you see the other side of the coin. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 If you're thinking of cheating on him, then you certainly don't love him. Why don't you do the right thing, and break up with him? Link to comment
obsesor Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 agreed with all above replies. why cheat? end it and follow your dreams... Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted August 19, 2008 Author Share Posted August 19, 2008 just because i want to cheat does not mean i don't love him. alot of people cheat on their lovers. Link to comment
Nearwater Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Do not cheat and join the ranks of heatless people that have selfish excuses why they want to cheat. If he is in love with you and can't help being away you are starting something you cannot undo. Most of the posts you will read in response to your statement will tell you this because it is true. Read many of the posts about once a cheater always a cheater/ ect and see the effect it has on ruining friendships, lives and your own health. Out of love, don't want to continue? Have the balls to end it with him so you and he can get what you want in life and in a partner. He does not want to have to live with or forgive a cheater and you do not need the guilt, drama and shame of being, or becoming that type of person. Link to comment
shikashika Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 unless this is a joke, or you just want to get an angry reaction from other ENA members, I don't know why you are posting this. Do you need to feel validated by him? Have you ever talked to him about not spending as much time together as you'd like? Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Well, a lot of people are aholes too. Why be like a lot of people? Because its easier to be a jerk? I feel sorry for your boyfriend. Your moral compass is waaaay outta whack. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 just because i want to cheat does not mean i don't love him. alot of people cheat on their lovers. So, you love and respect him enough to tell him that you plan on cheating, right? Lies and love don't mix. If they somehow do in your relationship, you're doing it wrong. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 and, btw, no, a "a lot of people" don't cheat. and, even more so, no decent person does. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted August 19, 2008 Author Share Posted August 19, 2008 disagree. cheating is a desire or a need when your bf/gf aren't doing their part to make you happy. and i have been cheated on alot. i also forgave him for it. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 disagree. cheating is a desire or a need when your bf/gf aren't doing their part to make you happy. and i have been cheated on alot. i also forgave him for it. Wow, I don't even know what to say to that. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 just because i want to cheat does not mean i don't love him. alot of people cheat on their lovers. you're kidding, right? this is a joke post..... Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 disagree. cheating is a desire or a need when your bf/gf aren't doing their part to make you happy. and i have been cheated on alot. i also forgave him for it. definitely gotta be a joke post...... If not...with all due repect you are truly insulting ALL OF US on ENA who have been cheated on. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 just because i want to cheat does not mean i don't love him. alot of people cheat on their lovers. You're correct. It's also called "having your cake, and eating it too", another title for a typical "cheater." Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 No one comes to ENA and asks for HELP to cheat...sorry. Not the way it works here. Link to comment
avman Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Ok, this is clearly not going in a constructive way. Thread closed. Link to comment
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