WadeCure Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Sunday evening my girlfriend and I got into a argument that lead to me breaking up with her last night. What spawned it is there is a concert I'm dying to go to on Halloween but that is her favorite day of the year so she thought I was picking the concert over her, when in fact I wanted to compromise and have our Halloween party either the day before or day after. The concert is the biggest event of the year for me. We then got into an argument where she felt I didn't appreciate her because I didn't pick up clothes around the house when tries to tidy up. I am a generally messy person and I'm just very forgetful but she feels disrespected by it. I asked her many times for reminders but she just says "you should know you are 26 years old." Unfortunately my upbringing was very lenient. I try my best to appreciate her, I just don't know how, and I ask her this and she says "you should know I shouldnt have to tell you it should come naturally." I feel this is completely unfair to me to not want to work things out and I'm trying my best to work it out. We talk about breaking up, and I ask her what she wants and she says "I don't know." I'm devastated at this point. Yesterday we talk on the phone and we tell each other that we love each other and miss each other, but when the topic of conversation comes up to what happened, the same thing happens, and she says "I don't know." At this point I just couldn't handle it any more, I felt like I was giving everything, and I told her it was over. We then fire a series of text messages where she tells me she loves me but keeps bringing up all of the problems again. This morning she sends a text saying "you know it don't have to be this way. I miss you." She sends e-mail to my work e-mail asking about how physically sick I am (I have been ill since the weekend) and checking on that. Then she says "What do you want me to do about the apartment if this is really what you want? You know I can't afford it myself." I told her in a response we would work out the details regarding the apartment. But she seems to be completely okay with the break up while I'm completely devistated. To be honest I didn't want to break up but felt like I had no other choice since I was trying so hard to work things out and all I get is "you should know what to do it should come naturally" instead of telling me what she needs. I am hurting so bad. Link to comment
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