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Guys - what is the quickest way for us girls to lose you?

allypally

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Godwin Enthusiast

Godwin

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Jealousy is my #1 turnoff, especially when its not warranted.

 

Also space, a guy needs space, needs to see his buddies, needs to be able to go to a bar now and again.

 

I see some of my friends, they are basically "not allowed" to go out drinking past 7pm, these people have told me they are not happy.

 

Trust is the most important thing in a relationship, and great sex.

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ryan123 Enthusiast

ryan123

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1. Cheating on me

2. Disrespectful to me

3. Liar

4. Keeping baggage around like ex-boyfriends

5. Having too many guy friends

6. Barfly

 

This isn't going to be the same from guy to guy. I tend to get jealous when my girlfriends spend a lot of time with male friends or ex-boyfriends...And from experiences my jealousy had a reason.

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george237 Enthusiast

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Seems jealously is a common denomator here.

 

Jealous of what? Other girls or your friends????

 

More then that. Jealousy of other girls yes, not all guys cheat (including me). If I want to go out with some friends I don't want to get phone calls 10 times that night checking in on me.

 

Friends and family, if I have something planned with my family or friends and something pops up and you want me to cancell. If I decide not to after I weigh the situation I don't want to hear that I always pick my friends or family over you.

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CallingAllAngels Contributor

CallingAllAngels

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More then that. Jealousy of other girls yes, not all guys cheat (including me). If I want to go out with some friends I don't want to get phone calls 10 times that night checking in on me.

 

Friends and family, if I have something planned with my family or friends and something pops up and you want me to cancell. If I decide not to after I weigh the situation I don't want to hear that I always pick my friends or family over you.

 

GOTCHA!

 

*Allie makes a mental note*

 

Thank you!

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russ978 Apprentice

russ978

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Disrespect.

 

I invited a woman to a wedding once, while catching up with some friends (whom she had never met) they asked me what I was doing for work and instead of letting me answer "Ohh, he just does a bunch of boring office stuff" came out of her mouth.

 

I don't usually get offended easily, but when someone you care about brushes off something that you care about as though it is unimportant or unworthy of any discussion...time to show them the door.

 

And as other said

-Lying

-Cheating

-Puts down your friends/family

-Unrealistic expectations

-Must be constant center of attention

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rocio Veteran

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There can be a spark, but that can fade, usually when things become stale. I think its up to both people to keep things interesting.

 

I never understood that. What, exactly, would someone do to "keep things interesting"? The way I see it, it's either there or it's not.

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I have a question about the needy/clingy....I understand the in your face stuff, but what about calling/contacting a guy.. not waiting for him to call you. At what point does me calling him not seem needy and clingy - or does it ever. I mean I understand calling him 10 times a day is probably not a good thing, but more along the lines of a couple times a week. And does telling a guy that you like him, and I mean LIKE, or that you enjoy his company.... is that being too forward?

 

Thanks in advance... great thread!

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