TheMichiganM Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Ok, dated a girl for four months. She's older and with a kid. She was head over heels over me the entire relationship and had it get serious quick. She lost her job and has been going nuts over it. One day she dumped me saying she is depressed, freaking out, and can't give her heart to one man. Her ex called her at her darkest moment and she said part of the reason she dumped me was because old feelings re-surfaced, even though she never wants to get back with him. I think the ex is a red herring but she may be right. I've had no contact since the break up. It's been two weeks. We had a fantastic relationship. I could be wrong but I think she made a hasty decision. I know it's hers to make but do I have any shot if I ask to hang out and feel her out? Should I give it more time or just completely drop it and move on? I know I will be fine with her (in time) and without her. I'm a catch. Why do I want to get back? We had an amazing time with no problems before she flipped out. She said it wasn't about me. She said she is still in love with me. She said I couldn't have done anything differently and that I'm amazing. She hates herself for doing this. I think this is about her getting herself right since she told me she feels worthless without a job. I have no problem getting "rejected" one more time since I would officially close the door. I just think it's worth one more shot and of course, timing is everything. How much time should I give her before I contact her? It's been two weeks. Thanks. Link to comment
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