shayshay07 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Hi everyone. I don't know if i'm posting this in the right forum, so if not, sorry. I'm 6 monthds pregnant, and everything is is going well with the pregnancy, thank goodness but the only problem i'm having is with my baby's father. Our relationship is really good for the most part, but it is bothering me that he hasn't really included me in his family yet. I met his mom and dad over a year ago when we first met, he didn't introduce us when i saw them, so it was like "hi, how are you" out of politeness. Anyway, he doesn't invite me to any of his family get-togethers or dinners, and when i call his folk's house to speak to him, they act like they barely know who i am. So i don't think he even told them i am pregnant. If he did, i wonder what kind of people they are that they have not asked me about the baby or shown any interest whatsoever in this pregnancy. I don't need the support from his family, i have enough support from my own family and friends, but still it would be nice, and it kind of hurts my feelings a little bit because we are in a serious relationship, and about to have a child, and I don't know anything about the family that he lives with and is very close to. My friend thinks i should just ask him why he doesn't invite me to any family functions, but i really dont want to because i feel like if he really wanted me to be there, he would ask. I don't want to force him or make him feel obligated to do something he wouldn't do anyway. Maybe its just my pride or something, but i refuse to invite myself to anything, or ask to meet with his mom, because i think its ridiculous that i should have to do that. A part of me wants to let it slide because i don't need them, but another part is really bothered that i have a daughter coming in 3 months, and i have never been actually introduced or spent anytime with her father's side. Does anyone have insight on hy he could be keeping me sort of away from them? Should i just let it go? Thanks. Link to comment
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