tranquil Posted August 18, 2008 Share Posted August 18, 2008 My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 1/2 months now. I have some problems with the relationship, but I'm not sure if I should end it or not. I'll list the pro's and con's of staying with him Pro's I love him I am completely comfortable around him (I have some physical defects, he's the only guy I have ever been completely naked around) I have basically moved into his house already Shallow: He's extremely hot Shallow: We have amazing sex He knows every single thing about me, literally. And vice versa We share the same interests He insists on paying for me, for basically everything He always compliments me He would never ever cheat, or even think of another girl I can't imagine life without him Breaking up with him would completely shock him and seem out of the blue He's depressed and tells me everyday that I am the only reason he's still alive I pretty much only hang out with him and his roommate. Con's He's constantly making fun of me He puts me down in front of our friends all the time He doesn't understand that I don't like sex that often, and tries to force it at least 3 times a day He makes me feel guilty for stuff that's not my fault, he's very passive-aggressive He's constantly bugging me to get a job to save money so I can get an apartment with him, but he spends all his paycheck in the first day without saving a penny I honestly don't think I'm that attracted to him anymore I don't get sparks when we kiss, I don't feel that urge to keep kissing him He's basically just become a best friend to me He's very immature, and emotional Biggest thing: I cheated on him while I was really drunk and high one night, only one quick kiss, but still a kiss, and I am attracted to other guys So that's my list, and I really don't know what to do. All those con's are enough for me to break up with him, but I don't know what I would do with my life if we did because his best friends are my best friends, and I basically live at his house...I would have no friends left if we broke up, and I'm just so comfortable with him and can't imagine another guy I can be that close with. I could really use some advice... Link to comment
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