MrNiceguy76 Posted August 17, 2008 Share Posted August 17, 2008 My girlfriend and I have been in a wonderful relationship for the past 3 months. We did move fast and we both knew that. She was as crazy about me as I am about her. She even called me Mr. Wonderful. She has always said that I spoil her and we had agreed to spoil each other which we both did. I'd mow her grass, wash her car, clean up around her house from time to time and she would cook for me, help clean my house, and rub my back and such. You know, things that people do for the one they love. I was sure that she loved me by the look in her eyes and the way she didn't want to let go of my neck when I would leave. She went through a divorce about a year and a half ago because he was unfaithful a couple of times after having some fame. His music is on the radio and his videos are on the tv. I know she sees and hears his songs and it upsets her sometimes. We went on vacation with each other and while we were gone she started to pull away. She's so sweet I know she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. She has expressed that she needs some space and that she honestly doesn't know what she wants. I have been the first person she has had a relationship with that she has allowed her daughter to be around. I've even taken care of her for an afternoon. I know parents just don't let their child stay with anyone. She trusts me. I pretty much lived with her at her house these 3 months. I would stay the night with her when her daughter was with her daddy and would come home the nights that she was with her mother. We haven't had much time apart from one another. I haven't been this close to someone myself in 10 years. I really have grown to love her and her daughter after only 3 months! She said she need some space last week. I had to go by and get some of my clothes today and she expressed that she just wanted to date....take a step back.....that we moved really fast and that she allowed it to move that way. We both agree on that. I asked her if she felt like she was in a box and just needed to step out and she said that that was a good way to put it. I tried to ask her what I should expect. Asked her if I could see her next weekend, go to a movie or something, and I'll drop her off and not spend the night. She said maybe. I told her that she would need to call me for I don't know what she wants, and that I would not call her. She said that would be ok. I'm asking for opinions here from women. Do you think shes just trying to let me down easy and break it off for good? What do women usually mean when they say they "need some space". Any opinions on how to handle this situation? Link to comment
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