valleygirl Posted August 17, 2008 Share Posted August 17, 2008 If you've been, umm, sleeping with someone for about a couple months, and it has been really intense, what do you do if they stop calling? I don't think I'm the kind of girl who just writes someone off after sharing quite real intimacy. I know people will be quick to say forget it and that's why I don't ask my friends. If someone needs space, do you give it? Or do you just walk away? I think there is potential. Real potential. But I do not want to be a doormat. Then on the other hand, I know it's only been a couple months and he had a long life before I came along. I can't gauge how much time he needs to think about me. Part of me thinks if he's thinking about me, or not rushing, it's a good sign? I don't feel sad or desperate, but I don't want to set a bad precedent. I guess I am wondering, have any of you ever disappeared and then come back? Or is someone always gone for good? And did you resent the other person for not chasing a bit harder when you were just feeling insecure? I know all the arguments for leaving. I'm wondering if there are any arguments for giving it another shot or leaving myself open. I don't want to sleep around or date more than one person at once, so waiting means putting my life on hold a bit. Link to comment
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