MilesDyson Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Ok, I think i have a problem, maybe i dont. Here goes: I was in a relationship for 3 years with someone who basically didnt do much (or try to match my involvement/effort) in bed. Now, I can say without ego, or reservation, Im pretty good in bed. No, im highly skilled in bed. But here's my problem. Now that im not with my ex, im having the best sex i've EVER HAD! BUT! It takes FOREVER for me to climax! The woman im with now, matches, or supassess me in effort. Am I just used to taking full control to finish myself off? What the hell do I do, to "let go" and let her "take care of me"?? Again, the sex is amazing, but time and again it takes a really long time, and I'd like her to have the satifaction of giving me what i give her. You know? Its all in my head, that's obvious. Ive tried not thinking about it, but im pretty sure after 3 years of being with an absolute prude, (it took a couple drunken nights to convince her that doggystyle was an actually option for non porn stars...) It has been dugg in pretty deep that i HAVE to be in control to climax. HELP!!!! -MD Link to comment
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