Dreams about another guy--LONG

[Elizzy09]

Ok well. a little over a girl ago, i stated getting very close to a guy my age during the time my boyfriend was neglecting me.(going out w/ other girls while we were together, treating me bad etc) The new guy knew everything that was going on with me, and we became close fast.

 

During the break my bf and i had, things escelated with the new guy, ill call him Scott. Scott and i started talking about maybe hooking up w people, who itd be with ...now that we were both single(pretty much teenager stuff, cause hey, we ARE teens) One night end of may, we hooked up. Nothing too sexual, just major kissing and groping for a while. Now, even though the kiss kinda sucked, i didnt care. I REAALLYY liked this guy, and i was willing to permanently leave my bf to be with him.

 

Well, long story short, he ended up not talking to me for a while. We'd have casual convo's here and there..but finally i thought i had been used per say. Now, mind you, he always told everyone since the day he came to our school at th beginning of that year, that i was amazing and he wanted to date me. what the heck!

 

Well, after we preeety much stopped talking, i did something SO childish im so ashamed of. I told his 2 best friends he was a bad kisser. I wish i could take it back cause really he's not, we just had timing issues since im not used to tongue on the first kiss. Well news got back to him, and we officially stopped talking. He got a new gf(i was devestated, i always thought he'd be the guy to take me away from my 'bad' boyfriend, plus, he ended up telling everyone after we hooked up that he didnt want a gf at the moment)

 

So, now they are broken up...school is about to start...and i keep having dreams about Scott. I wake up feeling like i want him, ill usually cry but move on with my day, but that *feeling* that i get in those dreams is always around during the day. What does this mean, if anything? How can i officially get over this guy?! I love my bf, but sometimes i think/dream about this other one who treated me so well for a long time.

[Gratsy]

Well, this guy probably got mad. He has a gf now, but if he did'nt thing might have worked out. If you want, you can apologize to him...it might make things better but don't do it for that reason. Its better to move on.

 

Plus, if you aren't happy with your bf, you should break it off with him, not sit around thinking about another guy. Obviously you feel neglected by him, so leave him.

[angellight]

Well, I think deep down you know your boyfriend was not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you want someone who treats you more like "Scott" did.. That doesn't mean Scott is the one, only he is closer to what your looking for when it comes to a bf. When you see Scott in school smile and be friendly. When your alone with him, it wouldn't hurt to apologize to him. Just explain you were hurt that he wasn't speaking to you and you said that to hurt him back...Explain that your embarrassed by your behavior and apologize...If your bf is not treating you right you need to leave, concentrate on school and I promise another one will come along and treat you the way a lady should be treated.

[Gratsy]

Well, I think deep down you know your boyfriend was not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you want someone who treats you more like "Scott" did.. That doesn't mean Scott is the one, only he is closer to what your looking for when it comes to a bf. When you see Scott in school smile and be friendly. When your alone with him, it wouldn't hurt to apologize to him. Just explain you were hurt that he wasn't speaking to you and you said that to hurt him back...Explain that your embarrassed by your behavior and you apologize...If your bf is not treating you right you need to leave, concentrate on school and I promise another one will come along and treat you the way a lady should be treated.

 

 

I agree with this.