Painful penetration

[Crystalsymphony]

Hey guys, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a couple months ago. It was quite painful and my hymen slowly tore, with each attempt. It was always pretty painful when he was entering me but got better once he started moving and then I felt no pain. Even at one point before I completely tore the hymen, I was having no pain and I thought my problems were over.

 

But then the time after that that we had intercourse, we tore the rest of the hymen all the way down to the base and it bled like crazy, unlike before. We gave myself time to heal and I thought it would be fine but I'm still experiencing this horribly stinging sensation right at the end of the tear, it hurts like hell! It doesn't matter how aroused I am, if I put my finger and press down on that section it burns like crazy. I've also noticed that it's tore on an angle, so I'm not sure if that's where the pain is coming from?

 

We've allowed lots of time for healing so I don't feel that that should be a problem. I'm just so tried of sex being painful.

 

Has anyone experienced this before?\

Thanks

[annie24]

hi - i'd go to a doctor (gynecologist) and have them check you out and make sure you are alright. we really can't give you medical advice here, no one can without examining you.

[Catdancer]

You could have a mild infection of the torn hymen, especially if it's torn at an angle and part of it is still attached.

 

Best advice...go see a doc ASAP.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Yes, I agree. Go see a doctor. You may have torn more than just the hymen.

[Aviatormy]

Reminds me of the T-shirt that says. "I am not a gynocologist but I'll take a look". JK

 

Yeah I agree that you probably have an infection. Internal injuries do take a long time to heal but if you have given it at least a weeks time, it should have healed by now. It is most likely not pain just from a tear. Most likely an infection. Please do yourself a favor and go see a doctor. You will be in a lot more pain if the probable infection worsens.

 

Hope you feel better soon!

[redhearts]

Thats not good. Did you guys get tested before?

[thejigsup]

When I had sex for the first time, it hurt somewhat for about two or three months and bled once in awhile. I am really small "down there" and even after having a child and over thirty years of having sex, I still need a guy to be careful and use lube, or it hurts a bit. No more bleeding, though. Haven't done that in a long time.