After a breakup why?

[alcide]

Why when we are in relationship, we think that the people are the best ever, and when we break up we tend to say the worst things ever, why dont we remember the old days lol. some people say the worst anout them.why is that?

[ghost69]

when your dog craps on your carpet, do you remember how good he was the other days? nope. people tend to take good times for granted. people use bad to make up for bad things. negativity spawns negativity. even to mask more negativity.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Why when we are in relationship, we think that the people are the best ever, and when we break up we tend to say the worst things ever, why dont we remember the old days lol. some people say the worst anout them.why is that?

 

Immaturity.

 

I would never talk bad about one of my ex's just because we broke up. Unless he did something completely mean. All of my breakups were really civil though.

[Butterflygrl]

when your dog craps on your carpet, do you remember how good he was the other days? .

 

okay that's just funny. lololol

[Butterflygrl]

Why when we are in relationship, we think that the people are the best ever, and when we break up we tend to say the worst things ever, why dont we remember the old days lol. some people say the worst anout them.why is that?

 

I think if you start off the relationship with someone whom you werent really attracted to or didn't pursue but you ended up with them and they broke your heart-- then it's easier I think.

but honestly it's really just one word that makes us do that..EGO

 

 

( and EGO.. it's a helluva drug) *said in the voice of Rick James*