So I Finally Told My Parents...

[Belgian girl]

how are you now ??

[jcrisph]

I'm against it for me. I'm not going to mess up my body and carry around a child and mess up my life for 9 months only to give it away.

 

If I'm pregnant and I keep it, I'd keep the kid, otherwise I'd abort.

 

thats the best reason you have?](*,)

[Belgian girl]

That would neither be mine but I agree with her there's getting asked for an opinion and well if that is the one from her..

Reason it won't be mine is b/c I put much more value to the ethics of an abortion than having the disadvantage to my body (which exists, I agree).

[Atticus90]

Abortion was probably the best decision for you. Having a child is a very good thing, but it'll probably ruin your promising career as a soccer player and there's no use in having a child if you can't take care of him/her financially.

 

Good luck!

[gardenparty]

Hope all is going well for you i think you made the right choice in your situation i mean i have an 11 months old and another one the way and i would never have an abortion i dont believe in it (for me) but that said im not agaist it either i think its someone right to choose.

 

Goodluck with everything 1:

[thejigsup]

I think you did the right thing. I had a couple of abortions because I was not ready to have a child, I was concentrating on my first career. I never regretted it and had a great time being young and carefree. When I was ready, I had my son and have also never regretted that at all. Do what is right for you and you will never regret it! Kids are great, but only when they are welcomed and you are ready for them. If you aren't, they can be a big mistake that you can't undo.

[ginger007]

 

thats the best reason you have?](*,)

 

same reason here....

 

if it bothers you so much then maybe people who'd rather abort can contact you to transplant the embryo so you can function as a surrogate mother? oh no wait, you're male, sorry.

[jcrisph]

[BellaDonna]

This thread has run it's course.