AnneM Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Hello, I have been broken up with my ex boyfriend for a while now. And although I don't use facebook, I recently signed up for it knowing that my ex boyfriend has a profile. I am obsessed at checking his profile (and other people too!) and I seem to check it every day now, a few times a day even. I don't want him back as he doesn't fit the bill for what I want in a guy. I left him a while back and I had strung him along for awhile. But now that he is dating someone else which he mentioned to me (we haven't spoken since he told me as I don't want to interfere with his relationship with his new girlfriend) and he stopped texting me, I want to understand why I keep checking up on him and his girlfriend looking for pictures and such. As I said, I don't believe I want him back at all so now it dawned me that I am becoming obsessed on checking up on him and his girlfriend or his friends and what is new with his life without having to call and talk to him or anything. Again, we haven't communicated for over a month or 2 now and we don't have common friends and we live in different cities which is far apart. Does that mean I'm not over him? I do still think of him on occasion on what he could be up to and such but I don't miss him. Is that possible? If at all, I just think he was all wrong for me and I wish I had cut off things sooner. Thanks, I appreciate a response. Link to comment
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