SeaBisquit Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 hi, lately i have been feeling like my relationship is going downward. i have been doing everything i can to keep him . i have been sending him photos of myself and suggesting that we take it futher in the bedroom. but i don't want it to be just about sex. i want it to be about bonding. i don't really know how to do that tho. any suggestions? Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Do fun activities together: golfing, hiking, going to the fair, etc. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 How is your communication? To me, intimacy starts with being able to talk to each other about anything, and really listening to one another. The rest follows. What makes you feel the relationship is failing? Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted August 13, 2008 Author Share Posted August 13, 2008 we spend most of the time in the bedroom. it's not really about sex it's more intamacy and we spend alot of time talking. we have a hard time doing other things because we can't keep our hands off each other. i do want to do more fun things. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 How long have you been together? How old are you? Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted August 13, 2008 Author Share Posted August 13, 2008 we have been seeing each other for a year. Link to comment
mandyc Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 plan some fun dates. maybe go without sex for a week... then plan an awesome night together. build it up kind of thing. play silly games like would you rather... or if you could....i got to know my boyfriend really well doing stuff like that early on. I'd ask a question then he'd have to make up one too. ex: would you rather be a fish or a bird? or if you could live anywhere where would you live? sounds silly but is a fun way to get to know everything about someone. Link to comment
mandyc Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 oh just kidding... if you've been with him for a year you probablly know all those little things. Maybe just try the no sex for a week thing. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Do you see eachother every day? You should see eachother less and make it more quality time. Don't spend all your time in bed. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 You don't have to go no sex you just need to do some activities where you two are bonding. Think of some activities that you both like and get out and do them. Also go out for weekend trips B&B's are always good. When I date I try and do something fun at least once a week (putt putt, movie, dinner, skiing) It keeps the friendship part of the relationship new and exciting. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted August 13, 2008 Author Share Posted August 13, 2008 play silly games... i really like that one. we do get into some deep conversations. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 do you have twister? wait, that might lead to the bedroom. dangit. Link to comment
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