Anyone feel like this?

[exploding head]

Anyone here feel like they are simply waiting for the next girl to come around and break your heart? Like there's no point to getting involved with anyone else?

[testcase]

Hey not yet... haha and I guess I hope I never do!

[starlight40]

Ive felt like that with the next guy that comes along will just do the same, your not healed yet, thats the point, youl see it differently as you go along x

[j0shua]

yep.

 

but i know im gonna do it eventually anyhow.

 

those walls, they are thick and tall...

 

but how much we would love someone to climb them.

[Takotsubo]

Sometimes I feel your pain. But don't let yourself get bitter. That's def. not the way to look at it.

[Mutley]

Well, gambling with your heart is the price we pay in getting involved with someone.

 

As of right now...I don't want to take that gamble.

 

Who knows? In a month or two I may have the stamina built up to risk rejection again.

[ahop]

Every relationship is a risk.. You have to be vulnerable if your gonna put your all into somebody.. It's like an investment.

 

I've been heartbroken twice and though the feeling of loss is like no other, I do not regret in the least putting my all into it both of those times.. If you have that mindset that your gonna get burned by the next person, it's probably gonna happen.. It will expose your insecurity.. One thing that I'm learning (learned) from my experience is that it will only make you stronger and more alert to what you want from a partner in the future.. I was nieve to a lot of things and I've learned a few valuable lessons from the 2 major heartbrakes I've experienced.. Never be a pushover, and don't rush into or let the other rush in too fast.

[Bonzophuebes1]

Im always looking for the next ex girlfriend.

 

Youll be fine. relax and just be you..

[exploding head]

Ive been thinking of going into therapy. In addition to the breakup im also dealing with being financially screwed and my mother's cancer. Im just finding myself depressed almost all the time now. I just dont know how much more I can take.

[Karmageddon]

Ive been thinking of going into therapy. In addition to the breakup im also dealing with being financially screwed and my mother's cancer. Im just finding myself depressed almost all the time now. I just dont know how much more I can take.

 

Well it sounds like you are just getting emotionally dumped on by all kinds of stuff & your current ways you cope are no longer working. So if that is the case, why not explore some counseling. A good counselor will really help you get through all of this & bring you some clarity.

[journogirl]

i would love to have the comfort and security of being in a relationship again but i know i have alot of work to do on myself

 

i need to realise why i put up with a guy who thought it was ok to belittle me and put me down

 

i need to work out why i give so much love and dont get that much back

 

i need to sort out all my crap

 

and maybe when im happy and ok in myself-maybe then i will find a great guy to complement me not to fill the gaps

 

i hope that day will come...'til then!

x

[exploding head]

i would love to have the comfort and security of being in a relationship again but i know i have alot of work to do on myself

 

i need to realise why i put up with a guy who thought it was ok to belittle me and put me down

 

i need to work out why i give so much love and dont get that much back

 

i need to sort out all my crap

 

and maybe when im happy and ok in myself-maybe then i will find a great guy to complement me not to fill the gaps

 

i hope that day will come...'til then!

x

 

 

this makes me cry. Seems familiar

[journogirl]

im sorry i didnt mean to make you cry!

xxx

[exploding head]

its ok. Im glad someone understands!

[journogirl]

i think we are obviously at exactly the same stage

i think this is the part people keep telling me about where it gets alot harder before it gets better

 

"the night is always at its darkest right before the dawn"

 

thinking of u

xxx