bellanicola003 Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Hi there! Well I think it's safe to say that we are all hurting over a breakup and most of us are in NC. I think it's also safe to say that 98% of us are dying inside by what's happened, hence the reason we all have come here. I myself am hurting quite a bit but today I learned something that helped me. I learned that when we break up with someone or take a break from someone that we are setting BOUNDARIES for ourselves to protect the person that we are! HOW AMAZING IS THAT?! That we, as loving human beings, can hit a point where we just can't take it anymore and say "ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!!" We all do it for whatever reason...but did you ever think of it as you standing up for yourself because you KNOW that you deserve better?! Because that is exactly what you have done! You are working hard at finding in life what you truly want out of a relationship! You are searching for what you want, whether that be with your ex or someone new! We are allowed to set boundaries to protect ourselves, you have just taken the first step in protecting your heart, your mind, your soul! Isn't that a beautiful thought?! Posted below is a website on the signs of a healthy relationship! I pray we can all find this with either our exes or someone that was intended just for us! Good Luck to us all! link removed Link to comment
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