bebeblondie Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 About a month ago I met a guy while I was out one night, we had a good time, he took my number down and called a couple of days later. We spoke on the phone for about an hour and I was leaving for Vegas that weekend so we agreed that we would meet up once I got back. The following week when I got back he texted me asking me how my trip was and all, and then asked if I would like to get together with him Saturday night saying that if I did not want to just to say “no thanks” and he would say thank you for the good time the night we met and that I would still be the best dancer in his book. I said Saturday night sounded good, and he said he would give me a call Friday to set something up. He never called Friday, Saturday he texted me saying he was sorry he didn’t call Friday he had gone out with people from work and that he’s really not a phone person (he’s very shy and does seem very nervous over the phone) anyway, he asked if I would meet up with him in the city (we live pretty far from each other so the city is the midway point), I said I would try but I had forgot that I had a going away party to go to that night so I probably would not be able to make it and I asked if we could reschedule for sometime during the week, he said sure no problem. On Monday he texted me saying that his brother and sister in law had extra tickets to see Bruce Springstein that night, he asked if I would come and said he would pick me up. Unfortunately I was out of town again and wasn’t coming home until late that night, so I told him I would love to but I could not since I was out of town, so he said that he could also get tickets for Thursday night. Now I know this going to sound like I’m avoiding him or making up lies, but Thursday night we were taking out one of my colleagues who is a very good friend of mine for her last day at work. I explained this to him and told him that if he wasn’t going to the concert Thursday night he would be more than welcome to join us. He said ok and thanks and that he would talk to me Thursday. Anyway Wednesday night I texted him telling him where we were going and what time and asked again if he would like to meet us. He said he was going to the concert Thursday so he wouldn’t be able to meet up, and said Fri or Sat would be good for him, so I said ok sounds good and have fun at the concert. So he texted me saying, he knew it was tough for us to get together but not to worry eventually we will, he said he was free that weekend and the whole of next week. So I said ok and hope to see you this weekend. Later on that night I texted to let him know a program we both watch is on and we started texting each other back and forth about it, and ever since then I have not heard from him. I don’t really understand if he was expecting me to initiate contact again, or he just lost interest since it was so difficult to get together? Needless to say maybe I should have contacted him again, not sure (to be honest I usually don’t have to) however whatever the case may be it’s too late now. Just looking for some insight. Link to comment
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