The guy I like is in love with someone else...

[Tiptoe]

or so I think. Walked in on him emailing her when I was drunk and I am pretty certain I caught the words that he loves her. I don't know why I didn't do anything at the time and am scared that I imagined or am paranoid about it.

 

She is in a relationship but it doesnt change anything, it still hurts.

 

Nothing is going on with me and this guy but it stings to know that he was emailing her whilst he was supposed to be with me.

 

I know the best thing for me to do would be to walk away and forget him but I can't...

[ceejay86]

hey,

 

i would ask him out right if he feels the same way about you? he may well be in love with this girl, but he was with you, spending time with you... i would ask him if he has feelings for you too, you might just be what he needs ;-)

[tina-rocks]

I agree with Ceejay86.

 

You need to find out if for nothing else but your peace of mind.

 

Find a good moment and broach the subject. do it in an upbeat way and he will feel more comfortable letting you in.

 

Good luck!

 

Tina

[Seraphim]

Yes, it is like the OP said. Find out if he likes you the same way you like him. If he does not than there is nothing you can do if he loves someone else.

[riley123]

Well, you were drunk, so you should avoid jumping to any conclusions.

 

I've been known to write 'love ya' at the of end of my few e-mails to a few female friends -- but I certainly don't have feelings for them.

 

I agree with the others, find out if this guy has feelings for you.

[Tiptoe]

Thank you for replying. I am going to speak to him soon hopefully so will try and bring it up then.

 

I am pretty sure of what I saw but for some reason I took it as a joke at that time. It wasn't just a love you at the end of an email it was actually the part of the subject, I didn't see the email content.

 

Ah I don't know why I care so much anymore, I know I can never have this guy.

[Tiptoe]

Right well I have tried calling him twice and he's not picked up. Guess I have my answer.

[Xetra Dax]

If i where you id give it another shot anyway, that way you can't blame yourself for not trying, you might have a chance since that other women is in a relationship, and he might be able to develop feelings for you, you never know if you never try.