paulmcorps Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 I am working on No Contact. I will explain my situation. I met a great girl and then I got deployed overseas. A death in my family brought me back here to the states, that I am still trying to get over. Anyways during the same week I found out about the death in my family, a girl I really liked and myself, got into an argument and she basically told me to only contact her from now on via email. She then went on vacation for about 3 weeks. I did send her an email letting her know I was coming home and about the death in my family. I heard nothing back from her. Then she deleted me off her Myspace. I later sent her a letter of apology via snail mail, which the letter did not mention any feelings for her, it just said I took responsibility for my actions and I listed out what I did to her and I also told her that I know forgiveness is something that has to be earned and does not happen overnight and if she never forgave me, then that was ok, just know that I was here for her if she needed me to be. That letter received no response from her either. Neither did a small bunch of flowers I had delivered to her. I am ready for the no contact challenge, because I am just exhausted emotionally over the death in my family, losing the friend that I had feelings for, and the fact that I am about to move back overseas. I am also wondering if no contact is the right thing to do or should I try contacting her one last time? Link to comment
Mutley Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 Not to be tart here....but you are ALREADY in no-contact. No, don't try contacting her again. A waste of time. Link to comment
paulmcorps Posted August 11, 2008 Author Share Posted August 11, 2008 Not to be tart here....but you are ALREADY in no-contact. No, don't try contacting her again. A waste of time. I just dont get why some people can not accept geniune apologies. Link to comment
Mutley Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 I think many of us here are baffled by the inconsistencies of words and deeds by others. The best thing to do is move on. Only give your time to people who's actions are a positive on your life. It's heartache any other way. Not just in romantic relationships. Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 I think many of us here are baffled by the inconsistencies of words and deeds by others. The best thing to do is move on. Only give your time to people who's actions are a positive on your life. It's heartache any other way. Not just in romantic relationships. Amen!! Couldn't have said it better myself. Link to comment
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