paulmcorps Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 I am working on No Contact. I will explain my situation. I met a great girl and then I got deployed overseas. A death in my family brought me back here to the states, that I am still trying to get over. Anyways during the same week I found out about the death in my family, a girl I really liked and myself, got into an argument and she basically told me to only contact her from now on via email. She then went on vacation for about 3 weeks. I did send her an email letting her know I was coming home and about the death in my family. I heard nothing back from her. Then she deleted me off her Myspace. I later sent her a letter of apology via snail mail, which the letter did not mention any feelings for her, it just said I took responsibility for my actions and I listed out what I did to her and I also told her that I know forgiveness is something that has to be earned and does not happen overnight and if she never forgave me, then that was ok, just know that I was here for her if she needed me to be. That letter received no response from her either. Neither did a small bunch of flowers I had delivered to her. I am ready for the no contact challenge, because I am just exhausted emotionally over the death in my family, losing the friend that I had feelings for, and the fact that I am about to move back overseas. I am also wondering if no contact is the right thing to do or should I try contacting her one last time? Link to comment
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