junebirthday Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 My bf and I have been dating for 6 months. We've known each other for 15 years though as we used to work together. We mutually want a future together, talked of living together, marriage etc. but have kind of agreed on the 1 year mark to make things serious. Thing is, he's having financial difficulty as he is currently trying to get his law degree and on leave from his current job. He has his own house, pays all utilities etc. and it's killing him! I have my own house, career, kids etc. and I told him to move in--now. I could help him with bills etc. (and his budget as I am very good with money) and he can go to school without the added stress of worrying about money. And yet, he's not budging. I think he scared or feels weird about a woman "supporting" him. I've decided not to push the issue...but I feel like I'm just sitting back watching this man plow himself into the ground. Any comments or thoughts? Link to comment
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