Rejection Horror Stories

[DaBladeRoden]

This isn't my story, I lifted it from another forum, but I thought it was entertaining enough to share with the world

 

 

 

I bet those dudes were just trying to get in her pants too.

 

Anyone else have any rejection horror stories?

 

Mine aren't quite as entertaining, one was a girl who I did various activities with for 2 months, but when it came to the official date, she said she can't date anyone because was obsessed with another guy who was already taken, and I guess she was perfectly content to live the rest of her days that way.

 

And there was the other girl who said she couldn't have dinner with me because her mom sends her soup in the mail every week and she had to eat that. Because we all know how perishable canned soup is.

[Caterina]

The soup one made me laugh! I can't believe she was that stupid...

 

The other stories are kind of horrible on both ends...the women are terrible and the guy who wrote it sounds sexist...calling women "asian chicks" and making references to her body parts.

[morgane]

This isn't my story, I lifted it from another forum, but I thought it was entertaining enough to share with the world

 

 

 

I bet those dudes were just trying to get in her pants too.

 

Anyone else have any rejection horror stories?

 

Mine aren't quite as entertaining, one was a girl who I did various activities with for 2 months, but when it came to the official date, she said she can't date anyone because was obsessed with another guy who was already taken, and I guess she was perfectly content to live the rest of her days that way.

 

And there was the other girl who said she couldn't have dinner with me because her mom sends her soup in the mail every week and she had to eat that. Because we all know how perishable canned soup is.

 

hahahaaa i love you

[Cognitive_Canine]

those both sound fake.

[DaBladeRoden]

those both sound fake.

 

I dunno, I've been to high school.

[Carmine]

those both sound fake.

 

Not fake at all. People treat others like total crap.

 

Ok, I'm about to retell my first crush ever when I was just a shy reserved high schooler and the pain it caused me. Fortunately, I look back at it now and laugh at how pathetic I was...and what a b***c this girl was.

 

For years I was infatuated with this girl that we'll call V. She was beautiful, athletic, and intelligent (well, book smart at least). I did so much to try to position myself around her, including putting myself in the same classes she was in my senior year. I knew her from cross country and track but I never was able to talk with her because I never was in the whole track people clique. I should have realized at that point that she wasn't worth it, but I persisted. I made a few nervous attempts to talk to her, and in the beginning I was feeling some hope and happiness.

 

Then I made a stupid decision. I decided to send her flowers on her birthday with a note asking her out. That afternoon/night I was hoping she'd call me, but I got nothing. I got to school the next day and she doesn't even look at me. I'm begin to get worried. Then all of a sudden, toward the end of the day, she, followed by her whole group of friends confront me in the hall. She taps me, says "Excuse me!" I turn around. She throws the flowers, which were all torn up, in my face. Her friends laugh. She says, "You'd better keep away from me, creep." I was so shy and broken at the time that I couldn't respond.

 

The worst part was I got this bad rep from her for that. Other girls who were even a bit friendly with this girl shunned me as well.

 

I wish I could say I got this girl back somehow...but I hardly ever think of her anymore. The way I'll show her and every other idiot in that school is by living on making something of myself, more than she'll ever be.

[morgane]

ahahah teenagers these days.

[Cognitive_Canine]

wow, I could never imagine treating anyone that badly.

[DaBladeRoden]

Ah yes, I've had two instances of girls not even rejecting me in person, instead it's just a gang of her friends telling me to leave her alone.

[Bkoguy07]

LOL holy crap

[allypally]

I got dumped on the top of a mountain! We had driven 5 hours to get there. The guy had no intention of continuing seeing me. He acted cold towards me all day ... this was a weekend away BTW. Anyway, the weather was awful, cold, wet, windy, everyone else was heading back down the mountain, and near the top I confronted him and said "why are you acting so coldly towards me?". He said "I don't want to be with you".

 

We drove the 5 hrs back in absolute silence!

[george237]

I got dumped on the top of a mountain! We had driven 5 hours to get there. The guy had no intention of continuing seeing me. He acted cold towards me all day ... this was a weekend away BTW. Anyway, the weather was awful, cold, wet, windy, everyone else was heading back down the mountain, and near the top I confronted him and said "why are you acting so coldly towards me?". He said "I don't want to be with you".

 

We drove the 5 hrs back in absolute silence!

 

Best one yet. That would be horrible

[allypally]

It was horrendous at the time but at least I can laugh about it now!

 

Should have slapped him and got the train back home but was cold and tired so ended up stuck in his car with him.

[Caterina]

That is the most horrible story in the world. It is weird how social dynamics play into mate potentiality. If you get a reputation from some * * * * * who decided to give you one, you can't live it down and it becomes more difficult to find someone, even if you're hot/smart/what-have-you. I've noticed the same thing with men. If other men in the office like you...that guy will be more likely to like you. If they don't, new guy won't like you. People are very influenced by what others like..."if she likes him, he must be worth it" etc

[Caterina]

Well, when I was a dorky kid in middle school--- I've seen this happen FREQUENTLY, and not just to me. The hottest guy will come up to you and ask you out. When you say "yes", he'll laugh in your face and then everyone will point their finger and jeer at you.

 

I learned not to fall for it.

[jengh]

Well, when I was a dorky kid in middle school--- I've seen this happen FREQUENTLY, and not just to me. The hottest guy will come up to you and ask you out. When you say "yes", he'll laugh in your face and then everyone will point their finger and jeer at you.

 

I learned not to fall for it.

 

that's terrible!!! People at my school would never have done anything like that.

[Carmine]

I got dumped on the top of a mountain! We had driven 5 hours to get there. The guy had no intention of continuing seeing me. He acted cold towards me all day ... this was a weekend away BTW. Anyway, the weather was awful, cold, wet, windy, everyone else was heading back down the mountain, and near the top I confronted him and said "why are you acting so coldly towards me?". He said "I don't want to be with you".

 

We drove the 5 hrs back in absolute silence!

 

That's horrible ally...even the environment was going against you. Everybody hurts like that sometimes, but in the end it getting past that just makes you a better person.

 

That is the most horrible story in the world. It is weird how social dynamics play into mate potentiality. If you get a reputation from some * * * * * who decided to give you one, you can't live it down and it becomes more difficult to find someone, even if you're hot/smart/what-have-you. I've noticed the same thing with men. If other men in the office like you...that guy will be more likely to like you. If they don't, new guy won't like you. People are very influenced by what others like..."if she likes him, he must be worth it" etc

 

Yes, but I said in another post some time ago on here that the small minority of truly good people out there don't give a crap about what some jerk says about you.

[allypally]

It was pretty bad, and I have to hand it to the guy for making sure he got rid of me.

 

For those of you who asked about speed dating - I met this guy at a speed dating event!

 

I'm still here to tell the tale and all is well, pretty much!

[AmIafool]

Just wait until she sees you at the reunion.

 

I have more rejection stories than I can count - I need time to think about the worst ones.

[Caterina]

It was pretty bad, and I have to hand it to the guy for making sure he got rid of me.

 

For those of you who asked about speed dating - I met this guy at a speed dating event!

 

I'm still here to tell the tale and all is well, pretty much!

 

 

I was sitting here, having a bad day and when I read that story it made me feel better in a sense that other people have gone through worse. That really SUCKS...that guy probably has similar dna to a dictator or something!

[hmm1]

I would probably (seriously) have killed myself if that had happened to me.

[DaXMan]

ah, time to shine. Ladies and gentlemen, witness the DaXMan horror show!!!!

 

1.) The first girl I ever asked out. We just began Sophomore year, and I knew absolutely nothing about women. Nevertheless, I still had the confidence (and apparently innocence) to approach the most popular girl in our grade. We were in a few classes together, so we did talk. She seemed nice...until I made my move. I was voted HC Prince to her HC Princess, so I tried my witty line about how maybe the Prince and Princess should see a nice movie. A simple "no" would have done the trick, but she took it a little further. She went off on me, yelling how "nothing will ever happen between us", "you're pathetic," and then she went on a streak of telling lies about how I creepily asked her out (I also got a lot of glares from her the next three years). She also enjoyed telling these fabrications to any girl she saw (I was somewhat popular in high school for things I've accomplished, so people could put the name to the face).

 

2.) Later that year, I asked out some girl I knew was into me. I got her e-mail and cell # with almost no effort. She had a friend try to fix us up. I felt real good about it. Unfortunately, some of her other guy friends had some strange influence on her and with the blink of an eye, I was now a stalker lol. I'll admit I was shy and couldn't talk to girls all that well yet, but I didn't see her enough to be a creep. Like the girl in #1 above, she hurt my rep too, with lies. I had a little one-itis issue here, so she was still in my mind for another year or two (from time to time). I did end up on a date or two with her, but it really wasn't worth it. The last straw came when she told me she couldn't make it to the bowling alley, but when my buddies and I arrived, she was right there, with her FWB. I cut her off and haven't spoken to her since.

 

3.) The next batch of rejections were very similar, so they get their own group. Basically, it seems either Girl #1 or Girl #2 said something that stuck with only the girls (the guys/big jocks at school and I got along). Every time I'd ask out a girl, I'd get a "hahahahaha no way" type response and the girl would give me the cold shoulder for the rest of high school.

 

4.) Senior Prom. I actually didn't know a whole lot of girls, so my asking pool was rather limited. Regardless, every single girl I asked said no. In fact, one chose not to go at all than go with me. I was probably too much of a "nice guy," but I don't know why no one would even want to go to Prom with me. Oh yeah, speaking of proms and dances...I didn't mention how the HC Princess from my Jr year refused to dance with me even though I was the HC Prince.

 

5.) The one bad college ask-out so far. This girl and I got along pretty well, constatly talked, etc. Anyway, there was a dance coming up just after Valentine's Day. On V-Day, I had a single rose, confidently walked up to her room, handed her the rose and asked her out. remember, we got along real well, so nothing bad could happen...well that's what I thought. The rejection itself wasn't bad - "I appreciate this a lot, but I only think of you as a friend." She also came over to eat with me a few days later. The bad part though, is that she has cut me off since, and I don't know why. I told her I'm cool with just being friends, and I wasn't being over the top in any way (like I probably was in high school).

 

Of course I have some questions, such as "Why does every girl I ask out not want to speak with me again afterwards?", but there's a lesson here: Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

 

When I started college two years ago, I began to hit the gym. Hard. I wanted to become better. I transformed from a scrawny pushover into a very athletic-looking, confident man. When I hang out back home nowadays, people from my high school are simply stunned, and presume I take supplements and steroids (I don't). Apparently, they thought I'd be the scrawny pushover I was back in HS for life; they didn't know that these rejections - and some other disrespect I got - was just what the doctor ordered. It's actually fun to run into the girls that had rejected me so harshly - I simply smirk and walk away.

[DaBladeRoden]

Funny it was a girl actually being interested in me instead of rejecting me that got me motivated to start going to the gym. Of course it turned out that she wasn't actually interested in me, so now the only thing keeping me going is the fact that I payed for 18 months membership up front

[emericaskater]

ugly swan syndrome. same thing kinda happened to me. gettin dumped just made me want to be better to be noticed more and be more eligible. also it would been sweet for the ex to notice. so she can see what she missed out on haha.

[greensleeves]

Well, when I was a dorky kid in middle school--- I've seen this happen FREQUENTLY, and not just to me. The hottest guy will come up to you and ask you out. When you say "yes", he'll laugh in your face and then everyone will point their finger and jeer at you.

 

I learned not to fall for it.

 

This reminded me of something that happened when my son was in middle school a couple of years ago. A group of boys had hatched this plot...the main one had asked this really unpopular girl to the dance and the plan was that when she showed up to meet him, they would all stand around and laugh at her and mock her. My son (he wasn't a part of it) was really upset about it and told me so I went and told the principal who made sure it didn't happen, but the girl must have been told something, because he had already asked her to the dance....the poor thing. Kids can be so cruel.