MemoriesDust Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 Yes, hello, me again. Just a quick post... My gf went pretty AWOL last weekend, took a day to reply to texts then would only say Good Morn/Good Night. I finally called her on it on Wed, she didn't reply to my texts nor my phone call, then eventually called me back, told me she was very unhappy and her dog (who has been sick since Feb) is close to dying. Obviously I was very sympathetic, although confused as to why she didn't tell me 5 days earlier instead of making me feel anxious (and eventually crying in front of my mum!) She told me that she wanted to spend the weekend alone with her dog, instead of seeing me, and of course I said that was fine and I understood. She texted a few times the next morning, and I told her I was here for her if and when she needed me, and I loved her. Since then I've just been letting her have space with the dog, as she requested... I haven't heard from her in 48 hours, but I notice that she's blogging about being incredibly alone, and frequenting websites we both visit, reaching out to friends, saying she's feeling "strange" and needs to chat. Am I doing the right thing is just giving her the space? I've been anxious for a week now. I feel like I'm in NC but we haven't broken up. I feel like I'm going through a break up... I feel shut out for no reason. She knows where I am, and she knows how I feel. Should I just keep my distance?? Many thanks. M&D Link to comment
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