Blockhead1013 Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 I was just wondering what girls opinions on this were? There is an extremely cute girl in my math class that I talk to, and we have some common music tastes. I was thinking of letting her know I like her by making her a mix CD, but I didn't know if that would seem creepy or if people still even do stuff like that. I was thinking about trying to make it less awkward by getting into a conversation with her about music someday at school, and then telling her that I could give her some music that I think she would enjoy. Any opinions on this? Link to comment
fastball2113 Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 dont do that, talk about music...no mixtapes Link to comment
ghostgirl116 Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 i have had men who have had crushes on me give me mixed cd's and tapes, and i really liked the gesture. you don't need to ask her if you can do it, just surprise her with it. when you give it to her, just do it in a really casual way. that way, if she doesn't feel the same way about you, you don't feel foolish. in fact, if you wanted to play it really safe, make a couple of cd's and give one to another friend. work your way in very gradually, and she won't be creeped out, as you fear... in my opinion. Link to comment
Flux Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 I'd actually feel a bit creeped if someone gave me a mixed CD. If you share music tastes just talk about your tastes ect and build something based on that. Then if you get to know eachother better, then you can make her a mix tape Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 I was thinking about trying to make it less awkward by getting into a conversation with her about music someday at school, and then telling her that I could give her some music that I think she would enjoy. I think that would be very nice. Talk about the music first and then put something together. I see nothing creepy about that...it is just two people sharing musical interests. Link to comment
Superfreak Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 I was just wondering what girls opinions on this were? There is an extremely cute girl in my math class that I talk to, and we have some common music tastes. I was thinking of letting her know I like her by making her a mix CD, but I didn't know if that would seem creepy or if people still even do stuff like that. I was thinking about trying to make it less awkward by getting into a conversation with her about music someday at school, and then telling her that I could give her some music that I think she would enjoy. Any opinions on this? DO NOT hand her a mix CD out of nowhere. On the other hand the second option of having a conversation with her then casually mentioning that you could give her some music you think she'd like probably wouldn't come off as awkward. Do realize though that she's NOT going to see this as a prelude to a romantic relationship, she'll just see it as a classmate sharing something with her. If you want a relationship, or just want to let her know that you like her, you have to talk to her about it. At best giving her a mix CD is going to make her think you're a nice friend. It won't make her attracted to you if she isn't already. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 I think it's one of those horrible things where if she likes you then she'll think it's great but if she doesn't then your're a creep. Tough call. I'm inclined to hold off a bit....test the waters. Link to comment
stella74 Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 When I've gotten mixtapes from guys before having gone on a date, I've always assumed they only liked me as a friend. So be careful of getting friendzoned. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 talk about the music you guys like then say 'hey, i can make you a cd if you want.' Link to comment
sparkly Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 a guy i worked with did this for me and told me he was going to.it had all slow songs really and kinda made me a little awkward,but i was very blind coz until this happened i didn't think he liked me. if a girls a * * * * * about it she can get * * * * ed coz whether you like her or not that is sweet. Link to comment
Crush85 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 I was just wondering what girls opinions on this were? There is an extremely cute girl in my math class that I talk to, and we have some common music tastes. I was thinking of letting her know I like her by making her a mix CD, but I didn't know if that would seem creepy or if people still even do stuff like that. I was thinking about trying to make it less awkward by getting into a conversation with her about music someday at school, and then telling her that I could give her some music that I think she would enjoy. Any opinions on this? I suppose if you really want to do this, the part in bold is the better way to go. The nice thing about giving her a CD mix is that it's a safe bet. On one hand, she might think you like her and if that happens, great. But if she just looks at it as a friendy gesture, then at least you won't have to deal with being rejected and souring a friendship. Either way, you're building a connection with her and that's a good thing. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 I think it depends on the person. If they are extreamly into music and it seems to be a topic of conversation a lot of the time I see nothing wrong with it. But if it isn't the above and she isn't 14 I would not do it. Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 just ask her out already! Link to comment
anacoolface Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Do it, give it to her! I love when that happens, if it was me you would win me over... if i liked the mix that is. Link to comment
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