CoCo2009 Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 Me and my bf just got back together and we are spending time together. I asked him if we could hang out on Labor day and he says he already has made plans with his friend to bbq and swim. I was surprised because Labor day is like 3 weeks away and he hardly makes plans with me in advance like that so I am pissed off. I mean he can hardly tell what he is doing on certain days but he plans this out 3 weeks in advance? Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 Yep, you are being too needy and paranoid. There is nothing wrong with him planning this in advance. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 9, 2008 Author Share Posted August 9, 2008 nooooooooo! LOL! Well atleast I recognized it this time right? Link to comment
purpleduckie Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 if he doesn't make long term plans with you at all, then you should be wondering why. if that's not the case, yes you are being needy and paranoid. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 9, 2008 Author Share Posted August 9, 2008 yeah he makes long term plans sometimes but we just go back together so I can't really judge right now. Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 I agree. If he makes long term plans with his friends and not you then I would question why. But if he just genuinely made plans with them before ou asked then thats ok. Did he make these plans before you got back together? Also may seem like an odd question but does his mates who he's spending this day with have gfs? Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 9, 2008 Author Share Posted August 9, 2008 I agree. If he makes long term plans with his friends and not you then I would question why. But if he just genuinely made plans with them before ou asked then thats ok. Did he make these plans before you got back together? Also may seem like an odd question but does his mates who he's spending this day with have gfs? He said they asked him to bbq for them so thats why he agreed to do it in advance or whatever. They like his bbq.. he said if I wanted to come I could. One of his friends is married and the other friend is single Link to comment
Rising Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 If he has been living the single life then he may have become accustomed to making plans for himself alone. It might have been an oversight, or it might be that he wanted to spend time with his friends without a girlfriend around. That should be totally fine. Whether his friends have girlfriends or not is irrelevant. The fact that he offered for you to come should let you know that he's okay with you being there and not up to something. Link to comment
Stella Sleepwalks Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 He said if I wanted to come I could. One of his friends is married and the other friend is single I really don't see what your problem is. Just go. Link to comment
needhimso Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 he said if I wanted to come I could. So what's the problem? Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 10, 2008 Author Share Posted August 10, 2008 I don't know I'm stupid I guess. I'm really shy and get nervous around people so I probably won't even go. This sucks kinda but its not his fault its mine Link to comment
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