route1 Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 my ex sent me a text the other day. it said. hi its ........ ..... here. i will keep this short and sweet. i have forgive you for what u done. do me one favour dont ring or text lol plz dont take this the wrong way its just the wrong way its just iv moved on with my we b/f who i love. i have not heard from her in 6 months. i finished with her because i was under pressure to get married. i still had felings for her tho there were not strong enough to commit the rest of my life to her. but i was still very hurt when she found a new boy and confused. but i let her get on with life. when she sent me that text i was really confused. why would she send something like that so out of the blue 6 months on? Link to comment
Hope_Springs_Eternal Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 maybe for closure, and to show theres no hard feelings? Link to comment
route1 Posted August 9, 2008 Author Share Posted August 9, 2008 no but she has been really angry. and i no i would not send a message to my ex telling them i love my new person there is no need to do that. closure would be more like i am really glad we have moved on and i forgive you. or something along them lines. i no she has a b/f i feel she is trying to rub it in a little Link to comment
Whiskers Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 If she is indeed trying to rub it in, would it not make better sense to ignore the message. Accept it only as closure and not give a crap about the rest? If you do, then she's achieved her goal. Take it only as a closure thing and move on. XXXX Link to comment
route1 Posted August 9, 2008 Author Share Posted August 9, 2008 yea i no ur right just the human thing in me still wants her to care about me i guess. maybe the closure thing is best there no point thinking anything else. Link to comment
Kahdeksan Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 Is she a sociopath? And does she really have someone new? I just don't see the real point of sending a message like this, especially since it's been so long... Unless there were some animosity between the two of you, then this message was sent with the intention to get you gnawing at your knuckles... Then again, all this could be untrue... the fact that she has someone new. Link to comment
kuhl282000 Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 Its her way of telling you she is through ....she has moved on ....thats what they do. She was clearing any guilt feeling she had by telling you she has forgiven you. Be grateful for that.........as far as her new BF, maybe she felt she had to do that. Sometimes people have to get in the last jab or last word no matter what you say or think. She is not coming back .......time to truck on down the highway ro new adventures ......one door closes another door opens...it always does. Link to comment
route1 Posted August 10, 2008 Author Share Posted August 10, 2008 after 6 months i dont think its her way of closure. i spoke to her face to face one day and she did her closure then. she changed her mobile number too. so why text me from her new number. i am not looking her back just curios what she mite be thinking. as far as i knew there was no hard feelings between us. could she be pissed off i am moving on with my life now? she has a b/f i have seen her with him. Link to comment
Tezza Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 Yeah, she is trying to rub it in BAD. I think that it is in bad taste quite frankly. I think that she is only txting you the fact that she has moved on shows on her part that she has still been thinking about you, and was probably really hurt... It's just petty... Link to comment
route1 Posted August 10, 2008 Author Share Posted August 10, 2008 thats what i was thinking tezza. i put myself in her shoes and in never in a million years if i fell in love with sum1 else would i text my ex to let them no i love my new partner. its almost like shes trying to convince herself Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 Its her way of telling you she is through ....she has moved on ....thats what they do. She was clearing any guilt feeling she had by telling you she has forgiven you. Be grateful for that.........as far as her new BF, maybe she felt she had to do that. Sometimes people have to get in the last jab or last word no matter what you say or think. She is not coming back .......time to truck on down the highway ro new adventures ......one door closes another door opens...it always does. I think if she had moved on she wouldn't have sent that message at all. More salt in the wound. Link to comment
gee Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 I think if she had moved on she wouldn't have sent that message at all. More salt in the wound. Right on, Holly! I have moved on and I am feeling better and I don't have the urge to tell her this! She is trying to hurt you! You said you had the closure conversation already, and she changed her number for you not to call her. She knows if she texts you, you will now have her new number. She knows what she is doing! Ignore her! Let her think this isn't phasing you at all! If you have the urge to reply tell her you are happy for her and wish her the best. Stay strong! gee Link to comment
route1 Posted August 10, 2008 Author Share Posted August 10, 2008 hey guys thnx for the advice i was a little weak and replied tho i sent this. hi .... here really glad to here your doing well and have moved on. you desrve and good guy and have got one good luck in your future. does that sound ok? i have also deleted her number. Link to comment
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