Girls: How to Quiet down

[Balbina]

Yes but I think pints of lager have an effect on us. Britain always seem to win those post football (soccer) riots, and us canucks have had a few rather fiesty hockey rough ups as well.

 

As a native Torontonian I try to stay away from all the madness propelled by liquid courage following "national" events. But there have been some close calls...

[Clementine orange]

As a native Torontonian I try to stay away from all the madness propelled by liquid courage following "national" events. But there have been some close calls...

 

Uh, yeah ahem...Those Maple leafs haven't exactly given you guys much to celebrate heh heh - poke jab

Recently anyway.

[IMAbadman]

I have to disagree with the other posts. There really is no reason for being THAT loud. That is called being an exhibitionist. She can pipe down if she really wanted to...she just doesn't want to. She wants the whole neighbourhood to hear her. I see nothing erotic and exciting about someone who has to broadcast to the entire world that they are having an orgasm...she may as well just dance naked in the street. I think it would be mortifying being her partner.

 

I agree. She needs to excerise a little tact...

[anon001]

ORIGINL POSTER HERE.

 

she wants to be able to masturbate with her room mates home.

also one "wish before she dies" is to Orgasm in public, no one knowing it

 

 

um ps I know it's kinda silly but I had a question here so no tips? no one has had eperience with this?

[edit. oh I reread one or two related experiences.]

[IMAbadman]

I think your question has been answered. If she wants to be quite, well... she could be quite. The point is she doesn't want to she likes the attention. Thus... "also one "wish before she dies" is to Orgasm in public"

[anon001]

I think your question has been answered. If she wants to be quite, well... she could be quite. The point is she doesn't want to she likes the attention. Thus... "also one "wish before she dies" is to Orgasm in public"

 

good insight. I hadn't put that together.

[JadedStar]

It's one of those things where you pick your time and place. If there is a chance others can hear, even if one has the propensity to be loud there ARE ways to tone it down...as one person said grab a pillow and muffle it.

 

If you are in isolation and no one is able to hear then she can roar like a lioness but otherwise she should try to tone it down because yes, it reeks a tad bit of exhibitionism.

Not everyone hearing that from another room or hallway would find that erotic....they would be embarrassed and hope she would stifle.

 

Her one wish "to orgasm in public" pretty much cements my thoughts that she has some exhibitionism going on and could certainly be more quiet if she wanted to.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

I think your question has been answered. If she wants to be quite, well... she could be quite. The point is she doesn't want to she likes the attention. Thus... "also one "wish before she dies" is to Orgasm in public"

 

 

Yep, the minute I read about the wanting to orgasm in public, that just cemented my opinion that her noisiness is done on purpose.

[PinkPearls]

Im one of those people who is just generally loud. I laugh really loud, I often talk to loud for my own good (I swear, I cant make myself whisper, I just cant). And as a result I find that I am.... uhm... quite vocal at other activities as well. On that note, I really dont think Im being loud, but the person that Im with always tell sme that Im being crazy loud. Haha, I guess I dont even think about it. But I can be quiet, but I usually let out a loud little "squeak" every now and then. Haha.

 

So it is possible for her to quiet down... nearly as fun, nope, prolly not, but like others have said, there is a time and place for everything... when you're going to potentially wake up the whole neighborhood, prolly not the right time or place.

[kyriel]

I think people are being overly harsh and assumptive about her ability to shut up. The OP said she waits til her roomies leave to masterbate and the point of the public orgasm what the idea that nobody knows. I little creepy secret. If she were a blatant attention fiend, do you really think she would care how many people were in the house when she went to town on herself? I'm a screamer too and I can honestly say that if it feels REALLY good, the only thing that shuts me up is a hand over my mouth. Lesser orgasms, yeah, I'm quieter, but it really isn't that easy. There comes a time when autopilot turns on and then, its too late to stop. I once had sex in my BF's aunt's house with the whole family home. Sure I managed to stay quiet(er) but it took me forever to get off, because I was thinking "Shutupshutupshutupshutup" instead of concentrating on the action.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

Yes, well, so it take you forever to get off...that is what responsible people do rather than subjecting the entire neighbourhood to the sounds of their orgasms. Nobody wants to hear it. Even in a hotel room nobody around wants to hear it.

[Shortandsweet]

I am normally a loud kinda girl (not a screamer, but loud moans), but one time my ex husband and I were having sex in a hotel room after our two daughters were asleep in the other bed... I was trying REALLY hard to be quiet but apparently I got a TAD carried away and moaned a little louder before I got the pillow and woke up our 4 year old daughter... :splat: It's a year later and she STILL asks me about it sometimes. I learned to grab the pillow earlier. ](*,)

[anggrace]

It's not always easy to be quiet. When Im eating something reeeeallllly good, I frequently make lots of yummiesh noises. It is very obvious to everyone around me that Im thoroughly enjoying it. I know Im doing it without telling myself to, and I sometimes tell myself to stop, but it just naturaly comes out. The same can be said when having a great O. However, to address your question, with enough focusing it can be silenced. There are times, like when at the fiance's parents, that I know I must keep it down. I grip or even bite pillows or my fist, put my hand over my mouth, ect. Your girlfriend can also try exhaling deeply with her lungs wide open without the vocals.

[pinkelephant]

I think it's kind of like eating with your mouth open. People who does it insists that it helps them taste the food better, but does it really? No, it doesn't. It's just extremely rude and disgusting. (Like, really, i *hate* people who are too loud. i feel like my ears are being violated)

 

 

Likewise with orgasming and being loud, at first it is hard and it takes away the pleasure because you're restraining yourself, avoiding a bad habit. However, over time, once you can control that, you can resume the same level of enjoyment.

[IMAbadman]

Hey I think "loud" women are great, once in awhile. The point is is that she exercises some tact. You don't go bellering out at a hotel, your parent’s home, or a house/apt. full of people. It’s rude, disrespectful, embarrassing, and yes… a bit disgusting.

Bet heck when you're at a private place with no one around for miles (at least in ear shot), get your groove on and let her holler like a wolf!

[Divine_Malice]

I found out that I can be rather loud with my boyfriend and I really can't help it, it just feels so amazing! just cause your loud doesn't mean your being fake, people are different. Though if we are in a house were there are people I try to control it, and if I find myself giving into it I push my face into him, his hand, or a pillow. It stiffens the sounds and I don't have to focus the whole time on being quiet and trust me I don't really want the world to know we are having sex so I am not putting on a show

[morgane]

I DON'T QUIET DOWN. ever!

[candy024]

Sounds like your chick has watched too much porn. Just stick your penis in her mouth and she'll shut up

[Divine_Malice]

Sounds like your chick has watched too much porn. Just stick your penis in her mouth and she'll shut up

 

Ok first of all, why does everyone say that? I don't watch porn at all and I am still loud. Get over it, she is who she is stop trying to change her. I mean really people just because people are different we are going to say they are faking grow up people are different.

[candy024]

Ok first of all, why does everyone say that? I don't watch porn at all and I am still loud. Get over it, she is who she is stop trying to change her. I mean really people just because people are different we are going to say they are faking grow up people are different.

 

And sometimes people just joke about people.

 

Life's too short to frown

[IMAbadman]

Sounds like your chick has watched too much porn. Just stick your penis in her mouth and she'll shut up

 

Oh heck yeah!

[CaptainPlanet]

I think it is very rude to be loud when other people are around. I really hate it when women are loud it is just disgusting and not everyone wants to know you are having sex.

[Divine_Malice]

I think it is very rude to be loud when other people are around. I really hate it when women are loud it is just disgusting and not everyone wants to know you are having sex.

 

 

Yeah, I can see your point of view and you should try to quiet yourself, but very harsh

 

And yes your so right candy!!

 

Thats why I always smile, ccause of the guy who makes me loud lol. No reason to fret over this stuff. Just let loose its suppose to be amazing and mind boggling, why label and try to make it different?

[bijoux27]

Maybe she can just do breathing noises more than screams/cries.

[Suesser]

My gf is extremely loud. I don't care, don't find it sexy, or really care about it. However, sometimes I think that we could use a bit of quieting, I don't need the neighbors to know when, and how long, we have sex.