He got punched by this girl!

[nicky8989]

Ok so, the girl weve been having problems with 'Mary' (see my first post on enotalone for more) punched my bf. The story i guess, is that my bf and a friend wrapped herr car in tape, and she came out, saw and punched him as a joke. Im so mad, cause he neevr told me, i found out thru a friend! This is cause for concern right? He had been telling me that he never had any contact w/ her since our 'big problem' thing with her went down...and now this happens, and it was about 3 weeks ago! What should i do?

[Catdancer]

If he is to have no contact with her...why did he wrap her car in tape??

[nicky8989]

exactly what i thought! he keeps saying its no big deal. i just wanted to make sure i wasnt being totally out of it, sometimes i can blow things out of proportion but come on, this girl has been a HUGE problem

[V01D]

What is the concern? That she punched him, or by her punching him they made contact? Obviously whatever stupid prank they were doing was not meant to result in her catching them, right? If he had done this and she not caught them would you have an issue with it?

 

Seems like in this case she's not the problem, since he went out of his way to provoke her? You should punch him even harder than she did.

[ghost69]

your bf had a punch coming to him. he messed with her car. i'd knock him out personally if it was my car. prank or not. duct tape? that crap can take paint off. not funny.

[Karmageddon]

From your previous posts, it sounds like its your boyfriend that is the problem hon.

[nicky8989]

Yes i understand that this time its his fault, but ive always thought it was him. I jsut meant that she is the subject of ours problems again. I think im going to break up with him, ive had ENOUGH

[nicky8989]

WEll she is now flaunting it on myspace..saying stuff about it....ive deff had enough of him and her.

[V01D]

Don't forget to punch him.

[Jelina]

exactly what i thought! he keeps saying its no big deal. i just wanted to make sure i wasnt being totally out of it, sometimes i can blow things out of proportion but come on, this girl has been a HUGE problem

 

That's why you should leave him.

[ghost69]

Don't forget to punch him.

 

lol, nice touch.

 

sorry this is happening to you. but you thought of it before. i'd question a gf is she was constantly 'pranking' some girl non-stop. almost like they have some schoolboy crush.

[nicky8989]

i just dont believe the whole story, and im thinking of msg-ing her on myspace and just kind of being casual about it, like "hahaha you punched him? What for?"

 

good/bad idea?

[ghost69]

what is your hangup with this 'bf' and this girl?

 

bad idea to message her.

[JadedStar]

She is not the problem, your b/f is. Why would he be doing this to a girl you two have been having problems with? sounds like he might have a crush on her,what a childish tihng to do, taping her car. guys don't normally spend that much time on annoying someone unless they have a crush and he sounds immature as he can get.

 

He would not have been punched if he had left her property alone. I think you should stay out of it as in saying anything to her, and consider dumping your b/f.

[nicky8989]

what is your hangup with this 'bf' and this girl?

 

If my hang up you mean whats my problem with it? Well it stems back to two years ago when he met her and has been a problem since. i understand she is not the problem THIS time, but she has been before. my bf insists that he was jsut acting with a friend on this, and that it wasnt his idea he was just on lookout

[ghost69]

If my hang up you mean whats my problem with it? Well it stems back to two years ago when he met her and has been a problem since. i understand she is not the problem THIS time, but she has been before. my bf insists that he was jsut acting with a friend on this, and that it wasnt his idea he was just on lookout

 

your bf sounds very immature then. your bf is doing all the stuff. this girl is just reciprocating. she's not the problem. i have no idea why that is so hard to see.