Jay2008 Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 I read through the previous posts and found some similar situations but also wanted to get some opinions on my current situation which has been keeping me up late at night for a while. I am now 37 years old and I've been married to my wife for 11 years now. We had our good and bad days like every couple. We are both still pretty attractive people. I helped her build her business to a very nice level and I am still an important part of her business. We can probably both do well on our own (even though together we're very comfortable financially). After all these not too exciting years accepting that life is OK as long as there is not much trouble, I met someone I connected right away (and she is actually older than my wife). I sure wasn't looking for any excitement or trouble, but we just hit it off the second we met. It's now been over 1 month and my feelings towards this person is increasing by day. Me and my wife long ago decided that we weren't going to have children, but I actually would want to start a family with this person. Because of both of our situations, we did not go any further than talking to each other (not even kissing), but we have a lot of common interests and everything just feels right for both of us. I also don't want to get into a sexual relationship while I'm still married. I think that if I left my wife, it would crush her. I respect her as a person but love has been gone a long time ago for me. She still tells me that she loves me but I am not sure how much of these words are true and how much is said out of convenience. I really believe that my feelings for this new person are deeper than just physical attraction. I am considering moving to a place on my own for a little while and decide what I want to do with my life. Any suggestions? Link to comment
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