Segan Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 So I went on a few dates with a girl in March, and by April we were seeing each other 3-5 times a week and sleeping together. I told her I wanted to be exclusive some time in late April or early May. She was happy and agreed. In late May she went on a trip to Vegas that one of her friends planned. She said it would be her and some friends of her friend (girls and guys). I was a little worried, and I told her so, saying "I trust you, but people make mistakes in Vegas." I also asked her if she could look into my coming. She told me that there were "already a lot of guys coming" and her friend had already bought tickets for things and she would rather not make waves with the arrangement. I let her go alone. Long story short, she and a girl and two dudes were in a King size bed (there were about 3 girls and 8 dudes on this trip). The second night they were very very drunk. The other two people in the King bed left, and the guy started cuddling up to my girl. He started kissing her, and she didnt make him stop for a couple minutes, at which time she said stop this is wrong, I have a boyfriend. She told me about 6 weeks after it happened, and we talked, and I was upset but I told her I would forgive her. I told her she was young and stupid and naive, but that everyone can make a mistake. I thought about it a lot and it hurt a lot at first, but lately it has been fine. Other than this one incident, she has never done anything to inspire anything but love and trust, although she can be a bit flirty when drunk.. but hey I think A LOT of girls are flirty when drunk.. It's part of life... heh. Right now we have a very strong relationship and love each other and are really working into a long term and serious thing (I am 26, she 22). The last month or so it has been semi-long-distance, but I have not had any trust issues or feelings of jealousy, and she usually calls me before she goes to sleep anyways. However, she has been away on a family trip this week and I won't see her for 10 days. I have thought about the Vegas thing again and it has made me feel bad. I don't want to think about it, but it has passed into my head. What do you all think about the over all situation? I really dont want to feel bad, but I hate to bring it up with her again, because I know how badly she feels about it. Should I try to work it out myself, or talk to her again? Link to comment
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