momo1212 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Alright, so from the top: There's this girl i've been/was dating for the past month named Sarah. I met her through her sister since me and her sister work together. Sarah is 17, i'm 21 going on 22. Now, it was Sarah who was interested in me, first. A couple of months ago, her sister told me that she thought i was hot and wanted to date me. At that point, i wasn't totally interested since i was still hung up on someone else, but i kept an open mind. So then finally i decide to pursue it with her, and her sister gives me Sarah's number. I call Sarah (This was actually the first time her and i formally talked) and ask her out for coffee. We end up going for coffee a few days later. Let me tell you, WE HIT IT OFF like there was no tomorrow. I'm talking instant chemistry. I felt like i knew her for years. I never had that much fun with a girl ever. She's actually quite mature for a girl her age and extremely intelligent. We actually ended up getting kicked out of Starbucks because we were there THAT long till closing time. So then we go out for sushi a few days later and things are even better. We kissed and what not and made out for what seemed like ages. Things were going good. So then i go on vacation after that date and we don't talk for almost a week. I texted her the day after our second date (making a joke about a hickey i gave her the day before she had a job interview) and that was that. So then i get back and still don't hear from her. I'm sitting at home one night writing a paper and i hear my text noitification sound. She texted me saying "Ahhummmm.....". I tell her that i just got back from Maine and planned on calling her tomorrow. I then ask if she's free either Saturday or Friday. She says she's partying Saturday and Friday, but might just "stop by" at the Friday party. I say don't worry about it, we'll do something next week. So then we have a back and forth flirty witty text convo and we end off good. So on Friday, i get a text from her at 6: 30 pm saying "I've decided not to party tonight, wann chill?". Now, i'm an EMT and i had agreed to do the overngiht for that night, which left us with only 2 - 3 hours to hang out, if that. So we talk on the phone and she says she'd like to take me to party for a half an hour and then we'll just grab dinner somewhere. Now, let me make one thing clear: I'm NOT a party person. I'll go, but i prefer not to. Let alone the fact that she was asking me to go to a high school party, which is just awkward. I also couldn't drink because i had ot pull duty ina few hours, anuway.So i guess i got a tad cranky and we ended up not hanging out that night. I call her a couple days later asking if she'd like to see the Dark Knight. She says alright, then says that i should gone to the party and she was thinking the whole time that i would've had so much fun. I then kind of apologize for being snippy if i was and she says "Yeah, you were, i thought you were like pissed off at me or something." So we end up okay and go out on the 3rd date. Everything seemed to go pretty well and we made out again and what not. And that was pretty much it. So i tell her i'll call her. We go about 4 days without talking. I call her on Tuesday twice and she doesn't pick up. I then texted her last night and i still haven't gotten a response. I've talked to her sister in the past, and based on what i've told her about how she acts on our dates, she says "Sarah soooooo likes you, etc" Her sister also says that she's never had a formal boyfriend or been in a relationship. She's been with guys, but just in a few "flings". I guess it's possible that i could've weirded Sarah out as well. She did make a few comments about me being weird. I'm a pretty strange dude and have a very black/odd sense of humor. Perhaps this rubbed Sarah the wrong way? What i don't get though is Sarah strikes me as one of those brutally honest types. If she didn't want to date me anymore, i would imagine she'd tell me outright, but i guess not. The final part of this whole story which is really strange is a status message she left on face book last night "heart is breaking, mind is crumbling, and generally falling apart at 17" Was that in reference to me? I'm confused. I know i've only been on 3 dates with her, but this does NOT sound like the Sarah i know. The Sarah i know is pretty unemotional and tough. So what the hell is going on? Does she not like the fact that i don't party? Did i weird her out? Link to comment
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